hello. I’ve been absorbing everyone’s comments and praying for the Holy Spirits leading. In all things I seek Gods will for my life and pray Gods will on my sons as well.
Here it is.
How do I know that?
It's God's will for everyone of us.
II Peter 3:9, John 3:17
I'm finally getting a chance for a lunch break so I will keep this brief .
Your title caught my attention and I won't write you a book. Please excuse my direct brevity sir.
Like most children, I can only suppose that your son was in a public or private school since kindergarten. Like anyone, he had more exposure and influence to every peer and teacher from influences you would not agree with.......than he did from you and your wife.
I understand that you were out working hard to take care of the family.
I'm not down on you for that. I'm just explaining that no amount of keyboard counselling on all the forums in the world will change that. I read your frustration.
You love your son, but he has disappointed you in many ways.
Here's where it starts.
I would watch this video below at least twice, to make sure you understand each point thoroughly.
Then sincerely pray at the end with those children.
Your son really needs to do the same thing.
If those children are raised with the influences of their loving parents and not turned over to a liberal arts college during those impressionable years, do you think they will end up with the strange worldly influences that frustrate so many parents?
They are getting an early start with a Biblical foundation.
Your son needs that too.
Only then will reconciliation with God first, then you will occur. Listen to the video, then share it with your boy.
Once he too has this gift,
God can then change his heart as he develops patterns that are preached/ taught from the Bible weekly in a good Bible believing church. (I might be able to help there.) Daily growth should occur with a daily walk with the Lord in His Word. John 17:17.
Sincerely to your reconciliation together.