Fellowship With Transgenders

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Webers.Home

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So 'fellowshipping' with transgenders in the Biblical sense is not the same as
spending time with them to evangelize them.

I suspect quite a few Christians would be very surprised to discover there
are numbers of transgendered folk amongst themselves-- male and female,
young and old --who don't need evangelizing just as there are numbers of
other "sinners" who no longer do.

1Cor 6:9-11 . . Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the
kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor
idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor
thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will
inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you
were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord
Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

The prejudice against transgendered folk is so rampant that it's difficult for
them to find a church where they can get a sense of belonging. Personally, I
classify them as Christians with special needs; and very few mature
believers are willing and/or qualified to provide those needs; choosing
instead to write them off as incorrigible scraps.

Something else to take into consideration is de-transgendering. Many have
realized they've made a dreadful mistake and are taking that route; which is
not entirely possible for some. Those who've gone all-in with radical
surgeries are now in a fix that only a full blown resurrection can repair with
any realistic expectation of achieving 100% success.

They are not alone. Quite a few Christians out there are earnestly longing for
the day when they'll be released from their handicaps and restored to full
function. For some; just getting up on their own two feet will be a blessing of joy
nigh unto impossible to describe.
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The prejudice against transgendered folk is so rampant that it's difficult for
them to find a church where they can get a sense of belonging. Personally, I
classify them as Christians with special needs; and very few mature
believers are willing and/or qualified to provide those needs; choosing
instead to write them off as incorrigible scraps.
I'm not sure how you can classify them as Christians with special needs. Is not a Christian a Christ follower?
1) Have they turned from the way that they have chosen to live or are they asking believers to accommodate the way they live?
2) Have they actually turned away from their sin and made the choice to live for God?
These may be difficult things to do but, until they are put into action, then the person has chosen to remain living in sin and is to be treated as an outsider!
2 Corinthians 6:14-15.... Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15 What accord has Christ with Belial?

The church is instructed to enforce discipline - it is necessary to maintain purity! However, it should be done in love with the hope that the person will repent and return.
 

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Two things we can learn from the Bible:

1. God NEVER makes mistakes

2. God will give people a reprobate mind when they reject the truth that God NEVER makes mistakes
 

Webers.Home

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#64

There's a story told at Luke 7:36-50 about an outcast woman. Well; long
story short: one of the religious men present at this dinner judged her on a
curve; and in his pious opinion she was at the very bottom, i.e. down in the
very muck and mire of human depravity.

But it turned out the fallen woman's degree of piety was vastly superior to
the religious man's.

The thing is: he honestly felt that were Jesus a true prophet, he wouldn't
allow that deplorable woman to touch him; not even his feet; which she was
washing with her own tears and using her own hair as a towel to dry them off.

So beware! Though our pious opinions might be honest, they just might
also be honestly wrong instead of right.
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Webers.Home

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Sometimes culture dictates morality.

For example: I heard tell of a man who lived back east in one of the
southern states where it was okay for Christians to use tobacco but not
okay for them to appear in public wearing a swim suit

When the man moved to California he discovered the opposite, i.e. it was
wrong for Christians to use tobacco while okay for them at a public beach
wearing a swim suit.

Rom 14:5 . . One man esteemeth one day above another: another
esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own
mind.
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FAQ: Should Christians shun transgenders?

REPLY: Absolutely not!

Transgendering isn't specifically addressed in the Bible, viz: it's a gray area,
and as such ought to be approached in accord with the 14th chapter of
Romans which says, in so many words, that we are not permitted to engage
Christian transgenders with debating nor abuse them with judgmental
criticism.

Transgendering is a rough road to travel due to embarrassing therapy
regimens; and side effects, complications, negative public opinion, doubts,
regrets, disappointment, and mood swings that many would rather not talk
about. So be especially careful with your dialogue so as not to push them to
the point where you'll be forcing them to maintain their poise with fibs.

A little empathy, and a whole lot of tact and courtesy, can be very useful in
helping someone get thru the day, ergo: don't become a hell for
transgenders, instead, become a haven because people really ought to feel
safe with Christians instead of wary.

Matt 7:12 . . So in everything: do to others what you would have them do
to you.
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Option. Sis is sin.

We shouldn't condone sin to please someone or not to hurt their feelings.

A lot of people are finding ways to justify this but then we must always speak the truth. Sin is sin.

May God help us all Amen.