My kids are 33 and 24. They are on my side, my husband cheated on me so the kids were not happy about that. I want them to forgive their dad and build strong relationships with them. I know God has plans for me. It’s just hard to go thru it. Selling the house division of assets starting a new bank account etc… he switched the energy bill and water bill in his name and I cried I felt stupid for crying. I was married 30 years. I have to get used to being single a new normal I have to establish.