Christian Friends

hello

My kids are 33 and 24. They are on my side, my husband cheated on me so the kids were not happy about that. I want them to forgive their dad and build strong relationships with them. I know God has plans for me. It’s just hard to go thru it. Selling the house division of assets starting a new bank account etc… he switched the energy bill and water bill in his name and I cried I felt stupid for crying. I was married 30 years. I have to get used to being single a new normal I have to establish.

A good friend who had a rather difficult marriage once asked me if I knew why divorce costs so much.
I said I hadn't really thought about it. He said, "because its worth it."

I'm sorry sister. Been divorced myself and its a total life overhaul, and it sucks. At multiple levels of every kind if suckage you can think of. And then there's the kids. My heart breaks for you. I just hope you are moving into better circumstances and you are safe. Divorce can be ugly too.

Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.

During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.

May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.

God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.

hello

Worse thing that a man can do is to cheat on his wife. There is no excuse. Irreparable harm is done as the marital trust can never be restored.

During my first marriage my X cheated on me too, also physically and verbally too.

May God be with you and guide you on this most difficult journey that lies ahead. Yes, you have to establish a 'new normal'. Hopefully it will be a better, and there will be peace in your mind and joy in your heart.

God does indeed have plans for you but there will be scars that remain.

I feel like I will never be able to trust a man again. I feel unlovable.

You are most certainly lovable. If God would lead you to the right man, you would probably trust him.

Thanks I hope so.

Thanks I hope so.

how are you