So I messed up back to me, I want you to think on my dating apps. For the purposes of flirting, and chatting with other women not my wife. Please keep me in prayer, and any advice here and what I should do to possibly ever gain back my marriage that I broke and destroyed through my own action.
i‘ve never been married but something that help me build trust with others, is getting the covenant eyes app. It’s a Christian app, mostly for those who are addicted to porn but I think what you and your partner would benefit from, is the nonstop surveillance of your devices that comes with covenant eyes.
You would have to find a trusted guy friend to be your accountability partner that will be notified about your mobile phone behavior. You would want to find someone who would take this really seriously but not condemn you.
i’ve discovered that accountability is key to recover from lustful behavior. Having God hold you accountable is even better.
i would recommend deleting all social media accounts, don’t watch rated r movies, don’t listen to explicit music and delete all dating apps.
Sometimes the flesh gets out of control if we give into temptation and that is when it is time cut one eye out and toss it in the furnace, not literally but figuratively.
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