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To be fair I do have some self control. Whether its with tv or out in the public (struggle sometimes when I do go out), I just struggle the most when I'm in the house, which is where I spend most of my time.
I think loneliness is a valid excuse. Of course sinning is never a good thing and I don't have an excuse for that, but loneliness is a major thing that effects (presumably) millions of people. And although sex is a foundation for a relationship, it is not the only thing I'm interested in. I would like to have someone to help me with faith, lift me up when I'm down, care for me, etc. So again it may seem like i don't care, or am just a lustful person with no control but that's simply not the case.
This part is mostly true. I've tried praying to god for help, but so far nothing has changed. maybe it's just me IDK.
Not sure what you mean by this.
You maybe right.
I think loneliness is a valid excuse. Of course sinning is never a good thing and I don't have an excuse for that, but loneliness is a major thing that effects (presumably) millions of people. And although sex is a foundation for a relationship, it is not the only thing I'm interested in. I would like to have someone to help me with faith, lift me up when I'm down, care for me, etc. So again it may seem like i don't care, or am just a lustful person with no control but that's simply not the case.
This part is mostly true. I've tried praying to god for help, but so far nothing has changed. maybe it's just me IDK.
Not sure what you mean by this.
You maybe right.
To be fair I do have some self-control. some? sin is never seen by God as some.
Whether its with tv or out in the public (struggle sometimes when I do go out), I just struggle the most when I'm in the house, which is where I spend most of my time. Pray and read the word and seek God
I think loneliness is a valid excuse. It is not a valid excuse to sin
Of course sinning is never a good thing and I don't have an excuse for that, but loneliness is a major thing that effects (presumably) millions of people. Here is the issue what if the person you are with is not wanting to have sex but wants you to enjoy their company? if you have someone to talk to and take places you will not be lonely but if you base it on sex you will lose them for sure.
And although sex is a foundation for a relationship, Sex is never a foundation of the relationship it reinforces what is already there. FYI a case of E.D. will bring your foundation down.
it is not the only thing I'm interested in. I would like to have someone to help me with faith, lift me up when I'm down, care for me, etc. That is a good thing
So again it may seem like i don't care, or am just a lustful person with no control but that's simply not the case. The heart of man is evil and wicked yours and mine. The flesh does and will always pull you to that part of your life.
This part is mostly true.
I've tried praying to god for help, but so far nothing has changed. maybe it's just me IDK. You have not tried hard enough there is help and you must want it. You are very young and I encourage you to place your sexual drive into the word of God and surrender to God all. Tell Him what HE knows and separate yourself from those things that cause you to dwell on sexual gratification. No woman is going to be with a person that is overly sex-driven. Women will think as most do all you want is sex. Not dealing with this will mean you will not stop even if you are having sex in a marriage.
Not sure what you mean by this.
what I mean is there is no sense of you having shame for this kind of action. On that, I could be wrong but I don't see in your writing true remorse of desire to stop and have victory.
You maybe right.
Whether its with tv or out in the public (struggle sometimes when I do go out), I just struggle the most when I'm in the house, which is where I spend most of my time. Pray and read the word and seek God
I think loneliness is a valid excuse. It is not a valid excuse to sin
Of course sinning is never a good thing and I don't have an excuse for that, but loneliness is a major thing that effects (presumably) millions of people. Here is the issue what if the person you are with is not wanting to have sex but wants you to enjoy their company? if you have someone to talk to and take places you will not be lonely but if you base it on sex you will lose them for sure.
And although sex is a foundation for a relationship, Sex is never a foundation of the relationship it reinforces what is already there. FYI a case of E.D. will bring your foundation down.
it is not the only thing I'm interested in. I would like to have someone to help me with faith, lift me up when I'm down, care for me, etc. That is a good thing
So again it may seem like i don't care, or am just a lustful person with no control but that's simply not the case. The heart of man is evil and wicked yours and mine. The flesh does and will always pull you to that part of your life.
This part is mostly true.
I've tried praying to god for help, but so far nothing has changed. maybe it's just me IDK. You have not tried hard enough there is help and you must want it. You are very young and I encourage you to place your sexual drive into the word of God and surrender to God all. Tell Him what HE knows and separate yourself from those things that cause you to dwell on sexual gratification. No woman is going to be with a person that is overly sex-driven. Women will think as most do all you want is sex. Not dealing with this will mean you will not stop even if you are having sex in a marriage.
Not sure what you mean by this.
what I mean is there is no sense of you having shame for this kind of action. On that, I could be wrong but I don't see in your writing true remorse of desire to stop and have victory.
You maybe right.
hey, you are not defeated. God made us with this desire to have sex, yet, the world and the devil have perverted it.
There are so many false narratives that women and men accept as a required thing to be liked.
Look at the women who were beautiful in the movies and as Entertainers who are modifying their bodies to be accepted or how they think " I am expressing myself"
Big rubber-looking lips fake butt, and breast nails long enough to scare Freddy Kruger, Eye Lashes so long on windy days they take off the ground or block out the sun. None of it brings satisfaction.
Men basing a sexual experience on false narratives. where Makeup lighting and editing of the film work to provide an optical illusion.
False narratives I am going to speak real :
no women want to have sex for an hour straight, no man goes an hour straight without drug or booze in their system or the camera cutting and editing the shot. No woman wants 18 in genitalia, nor do they like carrying around all day breast the size of texas watermelons. That is all false lies and perversion, Women are far more than what TV and Movies depict women as.
Jesus would never ask women to do those things to be accepted. All these women can't even keep a man from cheating on them or keep asking what is it about me that I am not doing that she does? or She not even as good-looking as me. Look's has nothing to do with addiction.
But this will have you lonely and empty and prevention will take you down further than you want to go.
There are so many false narratives that women and men accept as a required thing to be liked.
Look at the women who were beautiful in the movies and as Entertainers who are modifying their bodies to be accepted or how they think " I am expressing myself"
Big rubber-looking lips fake butt, and breast nails long enough to scare Freddy Kruger, Eye Lashes so long on windy days they take off the ground or block out the sun. None of it brings satisfaction.
Men basing a sexual experience on false narratives. where Makeup lighting and editing of the film work to provide an optical illusion.
False narratives I am going to speak real :
no women want to have sex for an hour straight, no man goes an hour straight without drug or booze in their system or the camera cutting and editing the shot. No woman wants 18 in genitalia, nor do they like carrying around all day breast the size of texas watermelons. That is all false lies and perversion, Women are far more than what TV and Movies depict women as.
Jesus would never ask women to do those things to be accepted. All these women can't even keep a man from cheating on them or keep asking what is it about me that I am not doing that she does? or She not even as good-looking as me. Look's has nothing to do with addiction.
But this will have you lonely and empty and prevention will take you down further than you want to go.
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Whoa I'm not expecting that.... I know TV/movies aren't real so I'm not looking for that. In fact I hate it when women use makeup, and can't stand women with excessive bodies (big breast, etc). The first thing that attracts a woman to me is there face. I'll date a girl with a pretty face and a decent body, but I'm not dating someone with an ugly face but a nice body. After all the first thing I'm gonna notice when I wake up in the morning is their face.