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The last 2 years of my marriage have been very bad. Due to some incidents that I am still not sure of I became very depressed and suicidal. In order to survive emotionally I had to go outside the marriage for emotional support. Something I haven't done in 21 years. I did not cheat but just wanted emotional support from a long distance friend online.
Well the emotional abuse still continues and I can't take it anymore. I often feel suicidal and don't see any future for me at all the way things are now. I even told my husband tonight that I had to go outside the marriage for emotional support and how did he respond? He laughed. It didn't seem to bother him at all. He was neither angry or jealous. I find that strange if he really loved me.
In fact he doesn't find the person to be a threat at all and was quite insulting regarding my friends occupation. He is full of so much pride that he doesn't think any one else would want me or that I am worth wanting. I feel like total garbage and not to sound desperate but if God doesn't intervene and do something about this I don't think I will survive.
I am feeling really broken and want to die. I don't think I even have the energy to leave my husband and start a new life after 21 years of his abuse.
I was crying for at least an hour and he knew and just ignored me. He knows that I like to be held or at least acknowledged when I cry because I have told him this directly numerous times. But his excuse was he was just waiting for me to cool down. I don't buy it. I think he purposely withholds any support to hurt me.
I need this to end.
Well the emotional abuse still continues and I can't take it anymore. I often feel suicidal and don't see any future for me at all the way things are now. I even told my husband tonight that I had to go outside the marriage for emotional support and how did he respond? He laughed. It didn't seem to bother him at all. He was neither angry or jealous. I find that strange if he really loved me.
In fact he doesn't find the person to be a threat at all and was quite insulting regarding my friends occupation. He is full of so much pride that he doesn't think any one else would want me or that I am worth wanting. I feel like total garbage and not to sound desperate but if God doesn't intervene and do something about this I don't think I will survive.
I am feeling really broken and want to die. I don't think I even have the energy to leave my husband and start a new life after 21 years of his abuse.
I was crying for at least an hour and he knew and just ignored me. He knows that I like to be held or at least acknowledged when I cry because I have told him this directly numerous times. But his excuse was he was just waiting for me to cool down. I don't buy it. I think he purposely withholds any support to hurt me.
I need this to end.