Prayers for my husband

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happyface

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I'm lost today, I know my husband is sleeping more, I pray that God helps me with coping. I feel I'm limited to do things myself. I don't want to get poorly. I believe my husbands cancer is becoming worse. It's very hard to keep strong. I feel drained at times. He's hasn't got up yet and it's nearly 10am.
 

levi85

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Father God please touch and heal Rod of cancer and other health issues. Lord also bless happyface. Lord we bring this matter to you. Please bless. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

mochi

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I'm praying for him..

Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

God bless you! HUG
 

happyface

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I'm beginning to think this world is just awful, people are always testing us. My own local butcher purposely ripped me off the other day, people are just being so evil, I'm sick of our neighbours offending my husband, I'm sure he's going to get poorly with a stroke, I sense things. Why can't I know anyone who cares. I just don't know how to deal with this life. Neighbours don't tell you when they have messed our fence up, Rod had to fix it. I feel so overwhelmed by everything. I'm asking the Lord to lift me from the enemy, I need to be strong in this world from preying eyes that only use and make us feel worthless. I really am so trying to balance things out. In years we have never been settled anywhere, boxes of stuff in the living room, it's awful. I really don't know now if God hears my cries, it's hopeless. I try to explain here because it's the only place I feel I can vent. Nobody understands our circumstances.
 

mochi

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Butcher definitely wrong doing that :(
I would be mad mad as well.. but lets forgive and let it go..
maybe we give him a small happiness from that?? lol
He probably need that to feed himself or his family? or maybe he is just greedy.. we never knew.. but whatever his motive.. God will deal with him :) so just forgive him :)

and i agree.. this world is just awful..
be the light anyway :)
God said in the bible that we are like sheeps among the wolf (Matt 10:16 “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves)
I've read some of your post in the past, and i think you have a beautiful heart.. Keep that and dont let this world change you and makes you bitter :)

God always listen to our prayers..
He knew our pain..
Know that He loves us :)
We have to have faith and be patience :)

When things gets hard and overwhelming..
I'll just go out to take some air and hangout (even that i'm not in a good mood to do that), challenge myself to do something new, watching movie etc and of course taking time to pray even that i admit it can be hard to do sometimes :)

I will keep you and your husband in my prayers..
Be strong and keep smile :)
God bless you!

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happyface

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Thank you so much for your kind words. Today Rods Brain is abit stressed. I've dealt with loads of pressures especially about him going on about our neighbours. I know my life is limited and it's hard. Thanks again.
 

happyface

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I'm. Learning that people are not what they seem to be in this life, I feel let down by many and feel this life is just so hard. Why is everything such a struggle.
 

blue_ladybug

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Happy, we are not promised an easy time on this earth. But Jesus DID say that all the pain, agony and sheer hell that we go through will be worth it in the end.. Rod is on his way back "home", he will soon be in a much better, happier place, with no more pain or hurt.. I know it's hard, but you've gotta just hang on.. *hugs*

Luke 1:37



I'm. Learning that people are not what they seem to be in this life, I feel let down by many and feel this life is just so hard. Why is everything such a struggle.
 

happyface

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its a very sensitive subject but my emotional pain is not all about Rod I HAVE TO EXPLAIN. my parents adopted my sister when she was a baby, but i know shes a big part of my mental health issues. recently she put loads of photos of my parents on facebook about a cerimony about the miners, but i wasnt told, i just found the photos on facebook. in the past I must stress she has been very manipulation over myself , she would storm out of rooms when ever i was with my parents and my husband, she once said i have got permission to put photos of my parents up etc, she got jelous of me putting pics up of me and my brother, and i always included her in the pics. I know she has overtook my life has far as my parents are concerned. They all wanted mt to live in a awful bungalow , my sister would text me and say I will get nothing better, but my husband knew it was awful area and bungalow. I feel so poorly that people in Life treat me this way. Im so weak because of my husbands illness and living in a bad neighbourhood. I pray to God my illness doesnt make me poorly. I feel like giving up if anything happens to Rod. Because I use to have a child like nature with my mother, but I know they are all for my sister, its hard to explain, but I feel shes overtook my life. Im a loving person, and I feel others underestimate my intelligence.

Prayers to help my courage throutout my journey of Life, I realize now that people just use me, its took many years to own up to this, all i need is a loyal friend. Its sad i have to come on here to ask.
 

mochi

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i'm so sorry to hear that :(
its sounds like bad environment you had there..
but dont let that circumstances take over your happiness and your peace..
try to count blessing that God give to us every day..
and take time to hangout even just an hour or so..
our happiness should be lean on Jesus and not on how the world treat us..
I myself still struggle with that sometimes.. but we have to!
and we are here to support each other and pray each other right??
so you're not alone! fighting!

Matthew 11:28-30
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

God bless you!! :)
 

happyface

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I'm sorry for being such a moan, I realise I was having a melt down and panic. I know I need to be myself and care about others. Rods mother is very poorly, it breaks my heart that Rods brother hasn't got her help. I played one day at a time sweet Jesus for her and sang it. Her little face lit up. We have to remember we do have pressure points and unfortunately I have not been myself, but I did have reason. But if we show love and care for loved ones we can't do much more. Thanks Jesus for sharing your love with me and showing me how to use your Love. Amen
 

mochi

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awww.. dont be sorry.. you're fine!
when i got overwhelmed i can be like that.. thats totally normal..
thats why taking time to refresh our mind is important.. hangout, walking around, doing something new and such and such..
it can help us to back to ourself.. to remind us about God's love.. :)
 

happyface

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Thanks for reminding me. I will always try to keep my faith and renew my mind often, that's good advice. X
 

mochi

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you're welcome! God bless you! :)
 

Rosemaryx

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean NOT on your own understanding, in ALL your ways ac- knowledge Him, and He will set your paths straight...He is the lifter of your head, that is what He is doing now, take no notice of the world and those who belong in it, the truth of the matter is, you and your husband are only passing through this way, you do not belong to this world, so maybe your husband will arrive home before you, only God knows, but remember this, if he does, then when it is your time, your husband will be waiting for you, and my O my what a fine gentleman will be there for you showing himself like you never seen him before...God says : Do not be weary, for I am the LORD your GOD, I will strengthen you, I will hold you up with my righteous right hand "...Now you need to put all your trust in Him, Lean on Him, rely on Him...Praying for you...xox...
 

happyface

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean NOT on your own understanding, in ALL your ways ac- knowledge Him, and He will set your paths straight...He is the lifter of your head, that is what He is doing now, take no notice of the world and those who belong in it, the truth of the matter is, you and your husband are only passing through this way, you do not belong to this world, so maybe your husband will arrive home before you, only God knows, but remember this, if he does, then when it is your time, your husband will be waiting for you, and my O my what a fine gentleman will be there for you showing himself like you never seen him before...God says : Do not be weary, for I am the LORD your GOD, I will strengthen you, I will hold you up with my righteous right hand "...Now you need to put all your trust in Him, Lean on Him, rely on Him...Praying for you...xox...
What a beautiful message. We have abit of conflict with our neighbour, the woman doesn't like us doing things in the garden and she never says hello. She frightened me alot. Because everything we do we can tell she gets mad. My husband will say why should he say hello first, we have given her all sorts of things in the past. It's like an evil force against us. But I'm being strong and I don't want to be poorly. We pray for a move with the housing to be near my parents. Let's hope something comes up.
 

kittycat7

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But now, this is what the LORD says — he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine."