A week ago, I hit a rough spot in my relationship. The first thing I asked God is " Lord, does this relationship please you?" I waited and waited for his response but he never spoke. I'm pretty sure that God wanted me to seek him on this. So, I started talking to the lord more about my relationship, and he started opening my eyes and eventually I was able to find the answer to the question that I asked him. What I'm trying to say that open your eyes to see the relationship. Does it please God? Do you see a future with this person? Are you unequally yoked? If we were to get married tomorrow, can he cover you spiritually?
Father God, I pray for Gemmy. Lord, you see the situation that she is facing. Lord, I pray that you give her peace in her heart and mind. God, open her eyes to see the relationship as you see it. Give her the strength to handle your response, Jesus. In this situation, lord help her not to rely on her own understanding (Proverbs 3:5) that she misses what you are saying. Gemmy, I pray that God will make you sensitive to his spirit and voice that in this season you'll understand what he is doing and saying to you, In Jesus name. Amen
And, God has not given you the spirit of Fear. You do not have to have anxiety in a relationship. That's not what God wants for you. He has plans for you. You're on his mind. He loves you