Struggling with homosexuality

I do not want to be gay,

I do not want to go to hell, so I have two options, conversion therapy or chemical castration.
I am going for the idea of chemical castration, it is far more easy in destroying my lust than conversion therapy.
I can eliminate my sexual sin with this, my sex drive can be virtually wiped out, I want you to pray that this treatment works.
This idea is like a God send.

God will love you UNCONDITIONALLY no matter what.
Homosexuality is not a sin.
If you engage in homosexual behavior such as sex then it is a sin.
You cannot change who you are.
I believe that our Lord will accept you for who you are.
But whatever you think is right...I say go for it.
I will keep you in my prayers.
God Bless You friend..

I'll pray for you, but what I'll suggest is that you start praying and fasting, thats an even BETTER way to get rid of those desires...it may take a long time, but it'll be worth it. Read this, Jesus disciples tried to help this little boy because he was epiliptic, but they couldnt help them because they didnt have the right kind of power, but then Jesus comes and cures the boy and tells them that the only way to cure something like this is through prayer and fasting, so you'll have to do the same. And pray to God before you do.




14 And when they had come to the multitude, a man came to Him, kneeling down to Him and saying, 15 “Lord, have mercy on my son, for he is an epileptic and suffers severely; for he often falls into the fire and often into the water. 16 So I brought him to Your disciples, but they could not cure him.”
17 Then Jesus answered and said, “O faithless and perverse generation, how long shall I be with you? How long shall I bear with you? Bring him here to Me.” 18 And Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of him; and the child was cured from that very hour.
19 Then the disciples came to Jesus privately and said, “Why could we not cast it out?”
20 So Jesus said to them, “Because of your unbelief; for assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you. 21 However, this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.”

Read Romans 1:26,27

I wish I could do nothing but that all day but I am a full time student.

Well you dont have to do it all day, God knows we have things in our lives to do, just spend your mornings inprayer before you go to school, and fasting maybe food, or television, pretty much, whatever FREE time you get, give it to Jesus.

And that will permanently rid of me of sexual desires?
I so do not want to go to hell, the fear of it dominates me life

Yes it will, keep praying and fasting and just keep reading the bible and start going to a good bible preaching church if you're not already, like i said, it may not be immediately, but eventually you will be free from all those desires...I'mn currently being freed from masturbation, I've been fasting and praying and losing those desires, and i feel a lot better. Stay encouraged man! And throw away EVERYthing that has to do with those desires, whatever causes you to think of those things, get rid of them.

But chemical castration would provide the same effect.

Chemical Castration - When used by men, these drugs can reduce sex drive, compulsive sexual fantasies, and capacity for sexual arousal. Life-threatening side effects are rare, but some users show increases in body fat and reduced bone density, which increase long-term risk of cardiovascular disease and osteoporosis. They may also experience other "feminising" effects such as gynecomastia, reduced body hair, and loss of muscle mass


Jesus has NO side effects, except everlasting joy!

My heart for you. You know that Jesus loves you as you are. I will keep you in my constant prayers.
God bless, pickles

I have asked God so many times and I still have these desires I have asked and yet I have not recieved! How can God say that in order to be a Christian you must be gay and yet he won't even grant your deepest wish to rid yourself of it!

What kind of games is God playing with me?
Can he tell that I do not want this? I need a solution and the only solution is to get rid of these desires and He is not doing it!

If you are a Christian and you have fully and completely accepted Jesus into your life, you will not go to hell, so stop worry about that part. You can be a Christian and be gay, just like alcoholics can be Christians, drug addicts can be Christians, porn addicts can be Christians. The difference between a Christian and a non Christian is that a Christian tries not to sin and repents of their sin when they slip. You can do the chemical castration if you want, but I don't think that's the best option. Your sin is no worse than anybody else's.

1 Timothy 1:15 - The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost.

Paul was a sinner, just like you, just like me. Pray, ask for guidance, ask for forgiveness. One more thing - becoming a Christian doesn't take away your temptations, it means you can more easily deal with them.

I like this response the best.

Here's something you can read: http://gracethrufaith.com/selah/homosexuals-in-the-rapture/

My twin is struggling with lesbianism so you are not alone. We have talked about it a lot (she is my other half, we are so close we're almost one). This is what we believe.

God loves us no matter who we are. He will never accept homosexuality, but that is no reason to hate yourself or be in denial. I love her the same, nor do I care if she is a lesbian, because I know who she is. She is a Christian, and although she struggles with lesbianism I know that she is saved because of what Jesus did for her on the cross. She fights those urges but its still always going to be there. I have no doubt in my mind she's a Christian because she loves God. Despite what others may say, homosexuality isn't the unforgivable sin. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, but in Him we are saved. You might have a history of homosexuality in your family, it could be a generational curse. Talk to a pastor, talk to someone you love and trust -who wont judge you- My sister came to me because she knew I wouldn't condemn her and she's found peace in that.

Talk to God but dont get angry because you're dealing with this issue. We all have problems, and if you do some real soul searching and cry out Jesus will speak to you. He is the answer for everything and He loves you too much to ignore you.

You are so young! Chemical castration wouldn't be something I'd rush into until there were literally no alternatives. Do not destroy a part of your body before you've even given yourself a chance to see if you could live with it or be cured! There is no reversal for that. It might seem all good but it's just a quick fix and you'll have to live with it for the rest of your life. What if down the road that you're in love with a young woman and you can't give her children? You can't say that it might never happen. Don't live in regret.

hey,

first, this is a hard struggle. If someone isnt affected either personally or through someone close...they dont know. I honestly think prayer and fasting wont take it away.

He loves you. And...I think once you talk to a trusted friend or pastor, like dread_zeppelin mentioned....you will understand that love more. The people in your life love you, and thats God....times 10.

He knows your struggle...be gentle with yourself...come to terms...stop running. Sit. Listen. breathe. get some clarity of mind....then I think it will be better to deal.

I know. I struggle with it too. I am preaching to myself. hang in there.

Actually prayer and fasting IS exactly what he needs...he asked for help guys, and thats help. He doesnt wanna be aware of what it is, he already knows, he wants to get rid of it...prayer and fasting...at least try it man, what do you have to lose?

jaxx this is something you cant fast away. thats like...saying hey Im cured when i fast. fasting....can help i guess, if you're looking for wisdom or guidance of how to solve it.

Remmember my friends that evil fills the air where all kinds of dark power surronuds it, the fallen angels, evil spirits, demon, power of darkness, principalities, and ...So you see that God fights against all these forces and the on;y way to do this is get to Jesus and move to a cklick where people gather for fellowship and are close to christ, keep praing and doind all sorts of things for the lord.
Usually the evil spirit moves into the person and he tries to do all sort things, like childern who are born with these types of odd deformity, cannot change but become what is there in their genes or hereditiary. You try to understand that only the Holy spirit can change you.
Dont be worried this spirit is coming from Satan, he has no religion or ...
OK
Bye
BARTHALOMEW