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    Why Are Women Expected to be the Gatekeepers of Virginity?

    I didnt have to look far to find her complaining about her ex. Thank god hes gone is a complaint I know she complains about her ex because you tagged her post. Where she stated the affect i thank god hes gone. That is a complaint. Women typically fall in love with one of the first few men...
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    Why Are Women Expected to be the Gatekeepers of Virginity?

    Most the vast majority. Also zero none will admit this if asked, i just hear it in their story telling. No hey i want to warn u im in love with my ex conversations. They say hes such a jerk you would just have to meet him. He did this that this that:( Yep because words just cant express how...
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    Why Are Women Expected to be the Gatekeepers of Virginity?

    I think we have the opposite problem of what the original post states. We are supporting aka promoting single mothers in my church way too much. I have said this to leadership and they have since stopped. But my church was talking about them so highly that they were promoting divorce it was over...
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    Response to "A Gentleman"

    If your attractive enough women will hold doors open for you. This garbage about gentleman is mostly just wanting men to give them validation and favors. Which you should never do. No im not joking about the door part happens maybe 2x a month. Ive been pressured to do all this chivalrous junk...
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    The sin of refusing sex

    If women dont think they are supposed to have sex with their husbands thats fine. Just tell men that when you date them instead of lying. It appears to b most womens plan have sex with a guy for a few years and completely cut him off. My ex wife told me she never wanted to have sex the rest of...
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    Unequal house chores

    I was in a somewhat similar situation with ex wife. However we had an agreement i cook do the dirty hard or outside jobs take out trash mow gutters fix and wash vehicles. She did dishes clothes vacuumed and not much left after that. She would try to get me to do her jobs then if i did them...
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    On trees

    As and expert i would say a big red oak or pin oak thats been trimmed at least once. Branches so hard its like walking on a sidewalk. Enough limbs to get a perfect tie in spot every time. Tall enough to catch a breeze on a hot day.
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    A question for the men...

    Because laying on your back is hard:)
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    Christian folks; how do you handle rejection ?

    It boils down to you cannot b changing yourself making some artificial persona that you use to deal with women. Its not gonna last. Schmoosing pedastalizing pick up lines worshiping everything she says and does. (Thats so interesting)! When its not and everybody knows. Ive got buddys who totally...
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    Christian folks; how do you handle rejection ?

    One thing about women is they can act very differently showing interest. Your expecting a smile nodding and open yes and showing interest back. However many times when women are interested they stop talking. Its your job to keep the conversation going. I learned this doing sales. If i ever let...
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    What should a virtuous woman look for in a man?

    This is interesting. So you think all men and all women of any age have the same value when it comes to romantic relationships? You just walk outside and see souls? Never been jealous of money a new house or car? And anything less is anti god. The OP is correct women are born with value and...
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    How do young divorce folks cope?

    I am divorced. 2 b clear most divorces in america are frivolous. Well im not happy is not listed as pardonable and i would steer clear of anybody who tells you about their divorce and doesnt have clear biblical reasons. Cheating and abandonment. I sat my ex down and told her i know your cheating...
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    Why Does Society Seem to Think That Cougars... Should Be Shot? (Older Woman and Younger Men.)

    My ex wife bought half on our first date and through out our entire relationship. I was not a sugar daddy. Then she divorces me and i was ordered to pay her 40k cash and 10k per year for 15 years. She makes 6 figures. This is all taxable i have to pay her taxes for her so add 20some percent and...
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    Why Does Society Seem to Think That Cougars... Should Be Shot? (Older Woman and Younger Men.)

    Yep just looking for a financial win that young men dont provide and men their own age wont give them.
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    Dear Ladies: You Can’t Custom Order A Husband Like You Can A Starbucks Drink

    This is ridic. Women dont have lists this short! Nothing about height or financial status? She left out the top 2 things.
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    Wearing a ring, when you are not married. Happily unmarried.

    I was going thru old photos and forgot a gf from years ago wore a wedding ring. I remember she did because working in sales having stunning features men would ask her out or hit on her incessantly. The girls at my local gas station have them and hit on me every day im pretty sure they are single...
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    What Causes Divorce/Can it Really be Prevented?

    No fault means no fault for women. The man is always the at fault. Its actually not a divorce trial. That would b if they were trying to find a guilty and or innocent party. The man is guilty of impeding the feminist dream and they have to run the numbers to determine how severely he will b...
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    Pregnant & recently single-heartbroken need men’s perspective

    There is a lot going on here. You have to try to view the perspective of what have i done wrong and what can i do to change things. He can b wrong about 10,000 things. Do you understand you are addicted to the drama of this situation. Dont think well mr wonderful is just gonna walk in my life...
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    "Women Only Want Money"; "Men Only Want Sex." How Do You Cope With These Assumptions?

    As a man dating women most men feel lucky to find a woman who isnt in debt. It doesnt matter if a woman has 10k 100k or 10mil assets the man will end up having zero dollars of that spent on him in his earthly life. However if shes in debt someway somehow your gonna end up paying for it. Men want...
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    Some Questions for Singles Who Have Been Hit On By People Who Are Married or Attached...

    Most people had full time jobs for years before retiring. That does not make retired people hard workers. I personally cannot believe full time ministry work is a paid job. They are not catholic priests doing mass every day. They speak on average 1x a week 1x a month. How that justifies a full...