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  1. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    No worries. You're well within reason to test whether a man's spiritual comprehension is sanctimony, or firmly understood conviction. Subtle provocation can soon weed out a counterfeit. Can't have been easy on the ego of the guy you knew. Staying home with the kids while his wife left for...
  2. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    Don't need to. It was deliberate exaggeration to emphasise my point. I'd never tell if I thought the suspense might actually kill you. I'm not fishing for women who are looking for material wealth. I bring nothing of financial note to their table, that I get. But for those women who are set...
  3. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    Definitely a safe pair of hands. You've completely disarmed me now. Probably for the best if Cinder's that notorious! 😇
  4. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    Managing money will do that to you. Calculating costs, tracking numbers, automating bills. No place for sentiment, just cold decisions determined by monetary outlay. Not many women about who use logic, data, and emotional detachment to make choices. I'm glad you're Christian, because I'm...
  5. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    I guess your emotional availability and accessibility will depend on the discount rate? Not to worry. Romance is optional, income is mandatory!
  6. Kainos

    Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?

    For all I care, a woman could be earning seven figures more than me, but as a recipient of the free gift which required a priceless sacrifice, I would know exactly what I was bringing to the table. A woman who earns more perishable wealth than her man just needs to understand that as her income...
  7. Kainos

    How long have you been single?

    12 years, passed in a flash, never felt like an anchor.
  8. Kainos

    Ministering to the Grieving

    If the picture for success was framed by the choices we make, adulterers would be paupers. You wouldn't be human if you hadn't ruminated over this question - if it's wrong for a man to violate his marriage vows and abandon his wife, then why is his life going so swimmingly? I hope you...
  9. Kainos

    Ministering to the Grieving

    I have an analogy for you from my own life. A friend from my youth who suffered a premature death. He joined the British Army at sixteen, serving in Iraq and Afghanistan. Fighting for his country was his dream. When he was discharged from the military and returned home for good, he took his own...
  10. Kainos

    New Here and Hoping to Connect

    Too few responses. How many of you guys have slid straight into her DMs? :LOL: Welcome to the forums @Kallista I hope you find what you're searching for, and then some! 🙏
  11. Kainos

    A partial testimony

    One uncanny occurrence after another. @passion84god I really don't like salespeople, but I'm buying what you're posting. Add that to how God can readily shift anyone in your favour. :)
  12. Kainos

    New here

    Go all in. 🔥🪓🔨☠️ Burn what's flammable, annihilate what isn't. Physically smash, wreck, or pulverise anything that won't burn. Throw the offending objects in a vat of acid if you prefer chemical reactions over flames or demolition! Delete your PDFs, or better still, use a digital file shredder...
  13. Kainos

    New here

    @Pilgrim90 It's no accident that some of the harm you've suffered was perpetrated by people who professed to be followers of Christ. The strength of the enemy (Satan) lies in concealment. He never appears in his own place or in his own name, but will be covered by some other name (often feigning...
  14. Kainos

    Worrying too much

    Always be sure to differentiate between worry and concern. Worry is an emotional fear. While concern is the practical awareness of a situation which requires attention. There is no fear (emotional worry) in love, because fear over an uncertain future has no basis when God's absolute authority...
  15. Kainos

    Advicd on Non-Christian Friendships

    Know this. I come from a place where faith was absent and rejected. Some of the most painful branches God has selectively cut away in my own life were once my friends. When my loyalty was misplaced, the Lord took sharp action, because He knew I wasn't always the best at walking away from people...
  16. Kainos

    Letter to the person whom I love the most.

    Worse than a secret crush is undisclosed love. Always lay your cards on the table. The temporary sting of rejection brings sharp closure, unlike regret, which lingers as a constant "what if". Thanks for sharing, nnrukshan15 🙏
  17. Kainos

    Advicd on Non-Christian Friendships

    Friendships are sustained by alignment of values and shared interests. They're mutually gratifying, rooted in affection, trust, and shared experiences. Friendships which leave you feeling empty are hollow, lacking any real substance. These are friends for the sake of proximity. Your diverging...
  18. Kainos

    new here

    Welcome to the forums, Kellas! Hope you find what you're seeking. 🙏
  19. Kainos

    What have you done?!

    A Finnish acquaintance already warned me how repeating this tongue twister is 1 of 13 ways to annoy her. Insulting the Moomins is another... 😆