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    Orbiters

    This is the definition of an orbiter. An opposite sex friend who secretly loves their 'friend', and may go out of their way to accommodate their friend. Either the opposite sex friend was rejected early on and was placed in the friend-zone, or he/she never had the courage to ask their...
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    Helping someone who has abandonment issues

    The reason why I am posting this is because of an incident that happened in 2012 when my husband and I were a couple. A female friend of his, who was in her forties a that time and has abandonment issues stemming from her childhood, wanted him to come over to her place on a Friday night to 1)...
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    Why would a male or female want this type of relationship?

    Why would a male or female want this type of relationship Fabulous Females: The Pseudo-Boyfriend and Just Making Space: Surrogate Girlfriend, Do You Have One? Why would a male or female not want what God wants for them relationship wise? Why would a male or female be willing to put up with...
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    Christmas Day

    My husband and I celebrated Christmas with a couple of friends along with a former boss and his live-in significant other. He is living at her place. The situation he is in is a mess that I would not want to be in. I was told by my husband that his 26 year marriage is ending because his wife...
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    Husband's former female friend chose to move on

    Recently my husband received a Facebook "call" from a former female friend he met in 2011 while the 2 of us were getting to know each-other letting him know that 1) she is moving on with her life, 2) she is moving out of the city where both of us live to go to school, and 3) she had wanted to...
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    Check out the youtube video below

    Check out the youtube video below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JonnxNrDORM
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    I need help

    I have an idea as to why behavior was not the best on this website. I have become involved in a co-dependent relationship with a couple, who are now friends, my husband has known since the 1990's. I have posted about them on this site. I realized this due to their behavior. The most recent...
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    Are the 2 of them friends or more than friends?

    If you are friends with someone of the opposite sex, but you secretly want to date that person, exactly what are the 2 of you considered to be?
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    Female half of a couple seeking advice

    My husband and I have been spending time with a couple he has known since the 1990's when the 3 of them worked at the same place. This couple has dated off and on since the 1990's. Both of them are on disability. Both of them can only work a maximum of 20 hours a week when they are employed. But...
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    Why does this happen?

    This thread is in response to the thread started by lilli. Why do deacons act like this? Why does this happen in the church?
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    Dating versus "hanging out"

    I found this article regarding dating versus "hanging out" on the internet. Dating vs. Hanging Out
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    The "nice guy" or "nice girl" routine

    How do you feel about someone playing the "nice guy" or "nice girl" routine? This is regarding opposite sex friendships and dating.
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    Rules regarding thread hijacking

    Is there somewhere on this site the rules regarding thread hijacking? I am posting this because some members are advised to start their own thread when they reply to a particular thread, and apparently their reply is considered thread hijacking.
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    How can males and females be friends without problems happening?

    How can males and females be friends without problems happening such as emotional attachment, marking your territory *by either gender*? How can males and females help each-other without one of the interpreting their time together as a date? What led me to asking this is the internet article...
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    Millennials and hooking up

    Something that boggles my mind is the millennial generation and hooking up. What is this happening? Can this be solved?
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    How can this problem be solved?

    How can this problem be solved? I see this at several different forums I am a member of. And it sad and frustrating to see this happening. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/millennials-cant-write-because-texting-writing-cj-wilson
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    What is the Pentecostal church like?

    I am wondering what the Pentecostal church is like. The reason is because my husband's former female friend grew up in that church as well as her parents.
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    For males and females is this practical?

    This is for the males and females... In today's society is this a practical way of relating to the opposite sex and finding a spouse? Getting to Know a Guy | Set Apart Girl
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    Opposite sex friendships

    Opposite sex friendships My husband and I have talked about this for several reasons... many workplaces in general are co-ed I am currently going to night school. I interact with males and females at school we are trying to figure out what the appropriate boundaries are for a married...
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    Men and women: Could you explain this to me

    What I am posting happened in the past regarding my boyfriend *now husband* and me, but since we both are Christians, I have been trying to figure out why this happened and why this particular former female friend of my husband acted like this. Some information about my husband's former female...