For any of the men out there thinking, "What if she was a psycho chick, and just making stuff up?"
Well, we live in a fallen world.
A. We DO have men who are predators, and come onto sites like this to mess with naive young girls.
B. We DO have girls in the world who are mentally unstable, and can wrongly accuse others.
Both scenarios are, unfortunately, a real issue in a fallen world.
For the men, I'll share my simple security precautions.
1. I never PM anyone, male or female, who is under 18.
2. I don't put anything in a PM that would embarrass me if it were shared in public.
(I sometimes put private thoughts in a PM, and expect it to be confidential, but it's never anything egregious.)
3. I generally stay out of live chat.
(Chat records are probably erased from the server quickly, if not immediately, and therefore it's hard to defend yourself if any false accusations were ever to occur.)
EVERYONE needs to be thinking about security and safety on this site...
both the men and the women.
