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TheBeverage

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My name is Adam,

Last week I discovered my wife of 12 years was having an affair with one of her coworkers. Obviously this has turned my world upside down, and I'm now looking for supplemental Christian fellowship to help me as I now come home from work to an empty home and a broken marriage.

Prayer is very much appreciated, but I'm also just looking to be involved in a Godly community in a way that I couldn't be till now.

God bless.
 
My name is Adam,

Last week I discovered my wife of 12 years was having an affair with one of her coworkers. Obviously this has turned my world upside down, and I'm now looking for supplemental Christian fellowship to help me as I now come home from work to an empty home and a broken marriage.

Prayer is very much appreciated, but I'm also just looking to be involved in a Godly community in a way that I couldn't be till now.

God bless.
I've been through exactly what you're going through brother. If you need someone to talk to just send me a DM.
I'm 60 and have known Christ since I was in my 20's.
 
Prayer is very much appreciated
Precious friend Adam, I can relate going through the same thing, but God Is Gracious,
my 'second' marriage is now at 40 years = I will definitely pray for you:

Please Be Very Richly Encouraged And Edified and
Comforted In Christ, and In His Precious Word Of Truth:

God's Grace Word for our infirmities


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And, precious friend(s), Please Be Very Richly Encouraged and Edified
In The Lord Jesus Christ and In His Precious Word Of Truth, Rightly
Divided:


The Bible: The BIG Picture

Amen.

ChrisE
 
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Welcome!
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My name is Adam,

Last week I discovered my wife of 12 years was having an affair with one of her coworkers. Obviously this has turned my world upside down, and I'm now looking for supplemental Christian fellowship to help me as I now come home from work to an empty home and a broken marriage.

Prayer is very much appreciated, but I'm also just looking to be involved in a Godly community in a way that I couldn't be till now.

God bless.
Words fail me. If I can be of any help to you, then I am all in. I have already begun to pray for you.
 
Hi TheBeverage so glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! Sorry to hear about your marriage and many of us have been through similar situations. In anything I pray God's will be done and 'cast my cares to the Lord' let Him handle it. Rely on God's promises like 'all things work together for our good...'. God bless and guide you through, IJNA🙏🙌
 
Hello Adam,

Marital unfaithfulness weighs heavy on us all. Even the singles among us.

A stranger I am, but it hurts that you should suffer such a betrayal. As an unbeliever, I hated how the married in my social circle would revel in extramarital affairs. The vexation caused me to think that it was better not to marry, because I saw no pattern of faithfulness, dedication or trueness, bounded by marriage in the world.

I will pray for you, and your unfaithful wife, because she must be in an even worse state (spiritually) than the one her infidelity must have left you in (emotionally).

The God of all peace and comfort be with you!
 
Psalm 23
New International Version
1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord
forever.
 
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My name is Adam,

Last week I discovered my wife of 12 years was having an affair with one of her coworkers. Obviously this has turned my world upside down, and I'm now looking for supplemental Christian fellowship to help me as I now come home from work to an empty home and a broken marriage.

Prayer is very much appreciated, but I'm also just looking to be involved in a Godly community in a way that I couldn't be till now.

God bless.
Welcome to CC, and sorry for the c**p you’re going through.

I’ve been through a divorce; it was different circumstances but ugly just the same. I discovered DivorceCare.org and signed up for a daily email. It was helpful and on topic.

Lean on Jesus every day. He is with you.
 
Matthew 4:4
New International Version
4 Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”