Adultery and impending divorce

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HisPeace

HisPeace

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My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.

This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.
 
The pain is great, can cause our minds to scatter in searching for what to do. I feel for you beloved!
 
HisPeace said:
My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.

This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.
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I am so terribly sorry you are going through this. I wish there was something I could say to you to ease your pain, beyond saying that you are greatly loved by your Heavenly Father and your brothers and sisters in Christ.

Holy Father, Abba, we ask that You comfort Your daughter, and give her husband NO rest til he acknowledges his sin and turns from it and back to You and his family. In Jesus sweet Name I pray.
 
Going through a divorce is never easy but we can either go through a divorce or growth through divorce. This is when the world seems very dark and unfriendly but I can tell you from personal experience..that by you grieving the loss of your marriage, journalling, talking with a pastor/friend/counselor, your healing will be slow and steady. One day you will wake up and find that your pain is gone and you will be able to smile again and life is worth living. Just like the words of the poem footprints, you will find that each day there was only one set of footprints in the sand and that was Him carrying you through this very difficult period in your life.
 
You have no need to be pardon by God because it was your husband who did the cheating and not you. As he has filed for divorce just let him go but get everything that you can out of any settlement. The worse thing that you can do is cheat of your spouse. Someone that loves their spouse doesn't even think about cheating let alone do it. What a horrible thing that he did to you and the family. Hopefully, you will find comfort, support and understand on this site. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
I pray God give you the desires of your heart sister.....God is able and willing!

Stay strong!
 
HisPeace said:
My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.

This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.
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I feel for you but it looks like your husband is history. Be glad he's gone.
 
Very sad for you, ive gone through a painful divorce myself. As I read your post the scripture that came to mind was 'Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding" God doesn't always say yes to what we want because He knows best and can see things we can't, but the one thing for sure is that He loves and cares for you and will work this out for your good. Have you considered that God although hates divorce may want you free from this unfaithful marriage in order to bring you a much richer blessing. Trust in the one who truly loves you. Praying for you x
 
From personal experience, a man who cheats is a no good bum. Consider him good riddance..
 
Father God we pray for HisPeace and family, please protect from divorce , destruction and sadness, heart break. Lord please bless Hispeace and husband with your blessings, and bind them with your love, and refresh. Lord please destroy the plans of devil and let you be the head of this family and be glorified. Please set her husband free from the bondage of satan, let him stop going to the another woman, but care his family and obey you. Lord bless this prayer request. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
I am going through the same thing. He filed for divorce and won't even think for reconciliation. I am so disappointed and so angry that I can't be civil to him. I don't even know what I want anymore but I do wish to keep our family whole.
 
Since he's already filed for divorce, and doesn't want a reconciliation, sadly your wish of keeping your family whole, is long gone.. :(


Filomena said:
I am going through the same thing. He filed for divorce and won't even think for reconciliation. I am so disappointed and so angry that I can't be civil to him. I don't even know what I want anymore but I do wish to keep our family whole.
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Filomena said:
I am going through the same thing. He filed for divorce and won't even think for reconciliation. I am so disappointed and so angry that I can't be civil to him. I don't even know what I want anymore but I do wish to keep our family whole.
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You really don't have to be civil to him. Like Lady Blue has said, the actions of your husband has destroyed the family. I pray that God provides clarity of thought and shows you the path forward to enable you to heal and get on with you life. It's a shame what has happen to you but if you go through past threads and posts you will find that you are not alone in this type of suffering. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
Im so sorry, this seems to happen more and more
I have been there also
It hurts like no other
I will be praying for you a well
God Bless
 
HisPeace said:
My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.
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Hi His Peace,


I pray that God gives you the desire of your heart and your husband a brand new heart through the new birth.

Our God can do the impossible. God bless you!!!
 
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