No, no feeling is ever wrong, it is what you do with it..........
No, I do not see how you are wrong for feeling this way.
Mothers are not perfect, you know! We all know, eventhough alot of superficial, naive, christians think a mother is to be looked at and honored as perfection, because she gave birth to you. It does not work that way in God's economy.
Mother's sin, they do wrong, and as a result cause unnecessary pain and suffering to their child/children.
They tell you what to do, without doing it themselves. And thus act like a hypocrite. How can a child ever look to a mother as a good example or someone to respect, if they have no good character traits, like kindness, honesty, or even humility to tell their child the right way to take in life, rather than following in their sinful, evil, hurtful, damaging footsteps.
Do you understand? I think you should.
I am interested in talking with you more about this, if you would like. Send me a message on the chat mail, send to REDmama.
Or sometimes, mothers do some very crazy, wacked-out, strange things to get their children to grow up. And God lets them for some insane reason. They get to damage the child's spirit, emotions, self-esteem, faith, all because they think they are better, and more in control. Well, then after you've exhausted your energy in doing all this wrong and hurting in an attempt to live life and move on, now your child knows or will know one day, you are not to be trusted and I hate you. It is quite stupid, they act like they have no brains. They want niceness, yet do not give it in return.
REMEMBER, we are not animals. Always lovey-dovey, and loving unconditional. We have a mind, a spirit, and other things you know God has given you. And mothers always seem to be more selfish and concerned about their rights as a woman on this earth, rather than raising up their child to be secure, healthy, and able.
So, really to me, this is a form of abuse. I have lived through if for the last 3-4 years. Even seeing counselors and taking it to the law. Attepting to file a protective order against her, for physically and verbally abusing me.
In the town I live in there are no good spirits. It is all about who can we hurt, how bad, and how dumb can we act, how unkind, and unforgiving can we act, and screw up someone's faith and ability so royally because we only care about ourselves.
So, if a man is doing this to you. I am sorry, they are almost all jackasses. They often use God's word against a woman, sending her to hell, and confusing her to no end. So, I pray you find a resolution to this problem that is bothering and irritating you.
That you know that no matter, if your parent or anyone else does not like you anymore, or want you around, that God does. So, find some godly people. Please. Because if you do, you will be one of the ones left on this earth, with positivity, acceptance, knowledge, faith built into you. And you'll overcome whatever it is that you are going through.
"One man's trash is another man's treasure" So, the saying goes with antiques and other man-made items, and it is with humans. One man abuses and misuses, and when the time comes to leave and escape, God has put others on this earth who know how to love, and treasure, and not harm and demean and weaken, and screw up lives, for their own survival and thus cause suffering that was never to be.
If you're interested look up about God's will on the internet. When we do not know how to control our own minds and spirits, and we become nosy, then we start acting like God. And hurt others. I have been the victim of this. And it has prevented me from getting married, having children, all normal God given things, because I see the pointlessness in fighting evil and living a good life, that brings me happiness and health.
So, maybe too much, and not all relevant to your situation. But it is what is on my heart. Hope you find something of worth and meaning to you in it.
And may God Bless you in your very near choices and growth in life.
Have a good day.
. Sounds so teenagers cliche, but I do also feel sometimes like the black sheep of my family for many reasons, being the main reason that nobody in my family is christian (catholics but without applying it to daily life). 