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AbigailZeke

AbigailZeke

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I am very close to disowning my father. Things happened (family issues) and I don't know how to explain what I'm going through. All I know is that, something's not right and I am very very furious, shaking with anger and grief. I want to give up and remove him from my life forever. It's not right. It's just really, really hard right now. Please pray for help. I don't know what to ask God right now. I just want to be what He has called me to be.
 
Lord we pray let you remove the anger and bitterness from Abigailzeke's heart and fill with your love, so that she forgive and love her dad. Let bless this daughter and father, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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the greatest virtue of the true Christian is humility, and it is our duty to volunteer humility all the day long: to be harmless and blameless we must do all things without complaining and arguing; altogether it is a matter of us taking the wrong upon us, which is the law of Christ, to bear the burdens of others. The only cause acceptable of God is being grieved because of the hardness of heart of another, but even if this is the case, the answer always remains the same, that we should take the wrong and forgive: forgiving stops sin in its tracks. But what we cannot do is to be angry and presume innocence, we cannot let the sun go down upon our anger. Be not overcome of evil (anger); but overcome evil with good.
 
Dear Lord we pray that you release peace in this sister's heart right now in this situation with her father..Amen
 
AbigailZeke said:
I am very close to disowning my father. Things happened (family issues) and I don't know how to explain what I'm going through. All I know is that, something's not right and I am very very furious, shaking with anger and grief. I want to give up and remove him from my life forever. It's not right. It's just really, really hard right now. Please pray for help. I don't know what to ask God right now. I just want to be what He has called me to be.
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Sounds like your dad hurt you. You need some time to think it through.
 
Hey abbie this part of your post says everything I just want to be what He has called me to be.
believe me I know what your going through see my room mate is a very vulgar and very annoying person he cusses all the time no matter how much I ask him not to he is insanely loud like im not even kidding makes my ears hurt he speaks nothing but dirty sexual and disgusting things he is rude all the time he makes fun of me he doesn't care about how I feel and constantly makes fun of my God and sadly I am unable to change room mates or else I would in a heart beat.

I am around this 24/7 and so often times I can feel my rage boiling up and sometimes I am just in a bad mood and he makes it worse however for the most part I refuse to allow my emotion control me I respond as loving and as politely as I can and I almost always respond in humility granted I do have weak moments lol.
I find that the only thing that can beat anger is love and sometimes we need to just spend some personal quality alone time with God to find that love to drown the anger.
 
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Remove yourself from his presence and pray. Avoid him until you can forgive him and look at the situation calmly with God's grace and love ...eventually you will find a way to forgive but you never forget the hurt and pain.

But God helps you heal so you can respond instead of just react,
 
Dear God may your peace and wisdom shine a light on this situation and have a resolution that will glorify your name.
 
AbigailZeke said:
I am very close to disowning my father. Things happened (family issues) and I don't know how to explain what I'm going through. All I know is that, something's not right and I am very very furious, shaking with anger and grief. I want to give up and remove him from my life forever. It's not right. It's just really, really hard right now. Please pray for help. I don't know what to ask God right now. I just want to be what He has called me to be.
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GOD IS GOOD --- love thy mother and thy father ---
 
AbigailZeke said:
I am very close to disowning my father. Things happened (family issues) and I don't know how to explain what I'm going through. All I know is that, something's not right and I am very very furious, shaking with anger and grief. I want to give up and remove him from my life forever. It's not right. It's just really, really hard right now. Please pray for help. I don't know what to ask God right now. I just want to be what He has called me to be.
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praying for u hugzzzzz
 
my dad was very unique too. he is not a christian so i guess i shouldn't expect a lot. but i think i'm so close to the situation i feel i should be able to improve things. i pray things improve for you. i pray fairness from your dad, salvation.
 
What makes it harder is that, my dad is a christian too.

Well, seems like I won't be thinking about how to remove him from my life. He chose to leave. This coming Monday. He's gonna be leaving behind his wife and his 12 year old son. My mother and my brother. My sister and I are both old enough. Tbh, I'm sad. I love my family. And it's heart breaking but it's his decision. I wonder how God will turn this around, all I know is He never fails and something good will come out of this.
 
Lord, I pray You would speak into this dad's heart. I pray You would soften his heart and help him to walk in a manner worthy of Your Great Name. No matter what choices this dad makes, I pray You would act as the true Father to every member of the family. I pray no member of this family would accept undue blame for this circumstance. I pray You work things together for the good of those who love You, and Abigail to rest in that promise. In Christ's Name, Amen.
 
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