They say blondes have more fun, but what will happen when a blonde is starting to find traces of white in her hair (not from painting the walls). Will the white pull a full takeover in no time?
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All hair colors are beautiful, but I envy blondes when they go gray. I have a good friend with curly blonde hair and her gray turned out looking like highlights -- the kind other women pay hundreds of dollars for.
I also envy Asian women with thick, luxurious hair. Unfortunately, my genes didn't get the memo, as my hair is fine and pretty wimpy. When it hangs straight, I wind up looking a lot like Cousin Itt (all I need now are the cool shades.)
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Therefore, I have been getting perms since I was around 14 (to make my hair curly -- my black friends, ironically, get what they also call perms -- to make their hair straight.)
My hair is a bit like cotton candy. It's thin and flat by itself, but if you add a bit of curl and air, it just goes WHOOSH!!! The first couple weeks after getting a perm, I look like a sheep that very badly needs to be shorn.But after it settles down, I get almost a year and half of easy wash'n'go hair.
Since my hair is "the darkest brown/light black" (according to salon charts... my hair isn't quite true black in comparison,) any gray strands stands out like dandruff on a black turtle neck sweater!
It's not advised to get two major chemical treatments done (perming AND coloring; though some women do attempt this,) so I'll eventually have to choose. I'll probably stick with the perms -- if I can still find anyone to do them, as most salons don't even offer perms anymore (but that's another story.)
However, I'm getting a gray streak RIGHT SMACK DAB IN THE FRONT (but of course... It couldn't be in the back or under other layers of hair... NOOOOOO,) so I'm having to get used to it.
I'm trying to tell myself that I'm entering into my "X-Men Era," just like Rogue.
And hey, she landed Gambit (whom I've had a crush on since the Saturday morning cartoon, mostly because of his Cajun accent) -- so it can't be all that bad, right?!
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Maybe I just need to put that in a dating profile: "Middle-Aged Rogue, Looking For Her Gambit... Leave a Card If Interested, And We'll See If There's Any Kinetic Sparks!"![]()
At my age I'm glad I still have most of my hair, and there's little grey. But then, grey hair on men is "distinguished."
Talking of hair I envy Asians. I like their black long hair.
Black man hair is not easy to manage. it's either permed, or braided and both can stay good for 2 weeks then its time to change. so the is why wigs are mostly used.
I think black hair can be versatile. Black hair can be straightened too every once in a while. Just deep condition hair, shampoo, regular condition and protective heat spray and then straighten hair. It can get super smooth like Asian straight!
I have Asian hair but YouTube has a way of sending me videos that I didn't even know exists. That's how I know that black hair can be straightened like Asian straight!
But I think braided is nice too. There are a lot of pretty designs. And the cool thing about natural is that you can shape your hair nice and full. It would be nice if I can make my Asian hair nice and full (or fluffy) for a different look!
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Talking of hair I envy Asians. I like their black long hair.
Black man hair is not easy to manage. it's either permed, or braided and both can
stay good for 2 weeks then its time to change. so the is why wigs are mostly used.
Hey beautiful are you Asian? I have a thing for AsiansI think black hair can be versatile. Black hair can be straightened too every once in a while. Just deep condition hair, shampoo, regular condition and protective heat spray and then straighten hair. It can get super smooth like Asian straight!
I have Asian hair but YouTube has a way of sending me videos that I didn't even know exists. That's how I know that black hair can be straightened like Asian straight!
But I think braided is nice too. There are a lot of pretty designs. And the cool thing about natural is that you can shape your hair nice and full. It would be nice if I can make my Asian hair nice and full (or fluffy) for a different look!
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Hey beautiful are you Asian? I have a thing for Asians
yes it can be done and braids are great but they don't last long.
I'm planning to grey naturally and see how that goes. Ive seen women with longer greying hair and they still look youthful.
To live is Christ, to die is gain.
Sure, the Earth suit wears out, the spirit and soul never will.
Soon we will be with Him and we will be in our "Soul" body, where there is no aging.
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