Maybe you could give me some advice then.
How do you tell some called out ones, that even though they are one of the lucky ones, (the small group called from out of a larger group that aren't called out,) they haven't responded correctly, and He is still waiting for a correct response to the call.
And you have to tell them this without upsetting them. This is understandable since many have not responded correctly for decades. He is still waiting, but He won't wait for ever. One day will be one day to late. This is as compassionate as I can say it. If your in faith, this is an opportunity to check yourself as Paul suggests.
Maybe some will thank me on the other side.