What I have learnt is people have various life experiences. These set their theology.
To shift their view would be to deny certain emotional experiences that define their life, so
no matter how much you share or show, things never move.
EG is one example of this, gb9 sounds like another, G7 a third.
If I bring glory and honour to Jesus, talk of victory over sin and death through the cross,
because it is not expressed by their definitions it must be false.
What I know is one can only express these things with the power of heaven, so I am not
interested in the theology but more in the hearts of the people involved.
Years ago it came like a bolt from the blue. If you walk like Jesus you would never reject
Him because there would be no reason to, so though people claim to have love and life like
His, if they do not have an open heart towards Him something is seriously wrong.
So when people take Jesus statements about love to all and say these are just condemnation
to show how far we fall short, you know these people are not walking as Jesus intended or
the Holy Spirit empowers. So just listen to Jesus and His Spirit, and you will walk in His ways.
Hallelujah for the Christmas and the cross, both expression of grace to us.