I ain't gonna go through all of your post because there is so much wrong with it as it would take me forever to untangle it, and I'm not interested in expending that much time and effort in doing so, given as you probably won't be able to grasp it anyway.
So, I'll just focus on the above:
Regarding Eph 2:8-10 (BTW, I find yours and others, interpretation of it mind boggling, that you would try to twist it the way you do.)
Your focus is only on the word "faith", but you completely ignore the words before and after it. Not to mention that verse was not written as standalone but within the context of vs 2:1 through 2:22, none of which, mention anything about a requirement for man to satisfy - it is something that you are trying to force into it. Have you ever read and understood all of them? I think not.
Here is vs 2:8. I also included 2:7 as an example. If you can understand 2:7, then you will see that its "exceeding riches of his grace", only come through Christ Jesus, and NOT THROUGH ANY CONTRIBUTION OF MAN'S, including by his faith - read the verse closely. Vs 2:8 begins with the word "For". The "For" means that it is a continuation of verse 2:7 specifically, and the ones prior to it generally. Vs 2:8 tells us that by that grace (the grace described in vs 2:7) - it being God's grace through Jesus Christ - are we saved. Furthermore, since the grace is His grace - then by that - the faith must also be His faith, which faith, was brought to fruition through His grace- there is no other pathway possible from/to the "faith" then by His grace. Any other conclusion would be a logical impossibility and contradiction of that. Additionally, were the faith of vs 2:8 to actually mean man's faith, it would completely invalidate the remainder of the verse - that it is actually completely and solely God's gift. Were it not solely by/from God alone, then the " and that not of yourselves" could not possibly be true. So, based upon all of the verses of Eph 2, it is clear that salvation, in its entirety, is bequeathed, as completely a free gift from an exceedingly merciful, gracious and forgiving God, through Jesus Christ THE Savior, unto His chosen ones, according to His good pleasure.
[Eph 2:7-8 KJV]
7 That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in [his] kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: [it is] the gift of God:
I don't understand your reference to 2:9 & 10, because they support my position regarding salvation, not yours. The "good works" are Christ's good works unto salvation, not man's good works.
[Eph 2:9-10 KJV]
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
Regarding Phl 1:4-5, you neglected to include vs6, which completes 4-5 - that it is God who begins the "good work in you" and who alone will perform it until the "day of Jesus Christ". So, according to the verses, man makes no contribution to that whatsoever:
[Phl 1:4-6 KJV]
4 Always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy,
5 For your fellowship in the gospel from the first day until now;
6 Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform [it] until the day of Jesus Christ: