Was trying to include how I got to the subject of 'lesser sins' from polygamy....
But what I am trying to say is that since I believe 'sleeping around' has basically been a fact of life probably since Esau, I think polygamy should be equally accepted by the ungodly....I would much rather have people actually taking care of the people they sleep with, then sleeping around, not caring, and treating themselves and their 'partners' as whores and their offspring as fetuses that can simply be aborted...or just treating 'sex' as a 'meaningless pleasure act'. I think this belief that sex is a non-meaningful sensual act or just 'for fun' is absurd and leads to abortions, infidelities, lust, and other things...whereas if they actually not only where spiritually connected through sex but actually married the people they had sex with, then something at least more meaningful would become of it, rather than abortions, et cetera... For some reason in my mind, the modern thought of sex as 'meaningless pleasure/fun--hopefully it won't create a baby' is one of the most demented concepts I have ever come across... Every baby that comes from sex is a blessing. And in a strange way I think it would be better for people who are going to sleep around to have many wives than to sleep around meaninglessly, have accidental babies they may abort, and ruin both their current families lives and the life of the baby born out of wedlock; I don't know what I am trying to say...
Let me give another scenerio...My 19 year old brother sleeps with his girlfriend, and since I do not believe they are going to stop, I seem to say in my mind, well 'if they are not going to stop, then it is better that they get married'...and since I see the first option as futile, I resort to this second tactic...Perhaps not right, perhaps insisting on them not sleeping together is the perfect thing to do, which I do...but do I have to put my foot down and insist every time I speak to him that it stop or can this other option of if they get married, then it was not meaningless sex but actually meant what it was suppose to, even if they did it before they were suppose to....lesser sin being they get married, greater sin that they just continue to sleep around, as he does not ahve it right now in his mind to get married for years...
I kind of think this is a bad scenerio and I am more of an "INSISTER on not sinning" than I am now portraying, but I hate the fact that people even in my family seem to take 'sexual relations with less emphasis than they should' and I don't know what to do about it...
hmmm
just thoughts, no I am not a mormon--though I think it is fairly cool how they can ride bikes like kids and wear suits at the same time
God bless
tony