i'm just seeing this now. wow! how come no one thought of this before? it's so simple. a behooving idea. we all have a chance to learn from other married couples. for instance, i'm married when i feel like being married & when it's convenient for me! hahahahaha, totally joking!!!!! i'm ready to shave marriage ideas with anyone. i'll tell you now, when Jesus brings 2 together for marriage & you both are born again Christians, it erases lots of doubt. my wife & i actually get along better as time goes on. blessings to all.