Church issues.

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When I go to church I'm interested primarily in whatever the Bible study is versus the typical Protestant come to Jesus message.

Therefore I typically like the Sunday School the Sunday night the potential Wednesday night and other Gatherings such as home groups Etc.

But what I find is that even though it is arguable that the most important thing going on in a Christian's life is there relationship with Christ and how to deepen that have more of a fulfilled experience with it and reap the joy that should be ours in Christ.

Yet I find that the majority of the congregation is going through the motions and not as deeply involved as one would think in such a scenario

To put it another way the lack of sincerity I see inside of many churches is a turn off and it's hard to ignore. The flip side of this is that there is usually a small group that is a dedicated group that is deeply involved in studying the word whether at the church itself or in a home group

I attribute this partially to the Outreach of the church itself and partially to the individuals who just show up on Sunday for their feel-good message once a week

I would imagine that in any church that has a hundred members or more there's probably somebody who has a little bit of grasp of Greek and or Hebrew to help things along in the underlying text of the Bible.

It's hard to find a church that does things that are personable and up close especially when it's a large organization

I had an experience with a church who took their high school students to a weekend campout where they walked along the river collected rocks, fished as well as chatted with both their peers as well as the leaders that were present about relative things whether it be problems at home school relations Etc.

In the evening there was about an hour or two long bible discussion that was initiated by a leader but went in whatever Direction the group took it

I think that it all ages something like this helps bring groups together as well as Church congregants if they just participate. Is this something that church is still do?
 
Not many kids are into camping these days. I don't think that particular activity would be popular anymore.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

We can plan bible studies and prayer meetings for Saturday night when everybody is available, and three people show up. We can announce a youth bowling night ON A WEDNESDAY... and 17 show up. That might sound like a very specific example, but that is what was planned and how many showed up.

People will do what they want to do and I can't control them. All I have control over is choosing what I want to do. Even Jesus had a big crowd when he was handing out food, but very few friends when he was laying out truth.

I have decided to keep doing what I do, helping who I can along the way, and not worry about it. I can't change people. All I can do is keep trying my best at whatever I have to do.
 
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