When she is incapable of creating an inside joke just between us or understanding that sometimes what I'm saying has two meanings, one for everyone else and one for her.
If she is too enthusiastic about trivial things, like Givenchy, Tiffany's, Emelio Pucci and Hello Kitty.
Her inability to speak with her body language or understand what I'm saying when I give her a look. (what is really sad is when her friends interpret my signals to her)
When my intuition judgement and opinion add nothing of value to her perception of any situation.
When she erects an impenetrable fortress of negativity and there is absolutely nothing I can do to make her change her mood.
When she cannot grasp the concept of US being a TEAM, that her problems become my problems and that she can help me with my problems too.
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Well said, LIAMS, you're right ON ! Now, which one of yous ladies gets what I just did there?
Anyway, moving along, I get annoyed when a girl I'm with does not think for herself. She need to have her ówn opines