Courtship?

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It's ok I'll just read my own.

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Are you looking for a wife or a TV?
 
Levib said:
Ohh dear, that girl needs help. What is she doing with a pitcher like she’s watering house plants? Does ‘DIY’ means Destroy it Yourself?

I don’t care much for TV so I’ll take the first option.
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? Can't tell what kind of car it is, but better not be electric cos she might short circuit it.
 
Lanolin said:
? Can't tell what kind of car it is, but better not be electric cos she might short circuit it.
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She’s looking in the boot and and thinking “That’s why its not working, my engine is gone”

There’s probably a chapter in the book - What to do when your engine is missing (Check the other boot)
 
Maybe there's plants in the front boot.
I put mine in the back, though I don't have a 'boot' as such. My car's a mini-van.
 
OH NO!

If we marry by zoom before Saturday, how long must I repent at leisure?

Things seem to be moving a bit fast....
I have to organise a flight, pick up a ring, climb a mountain, sit in a tree, tell a pastor, and not forget to water the plants in my car!
What do I do with the life I'm leaving behind?
 
Lanolin said:
OH NO!

If we marry by zoom before Saturday, how long must I repent at leisure?

Things seem to be moving a bit fast....
I have to organise a flight, pick up a ring, climb a mountain, sit in a tree, tell a pastor, and not forget to water the plants in my car!
What do I do with the life I'm leaving behind?
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Are you trying to postpone it already? You set the date.

I don’t understand ‘repent at leisure’
 
Oncefallen said:
I think you missed the point (or seriously misunderstood).

Most younger people these days will date for years (I've met couples who have dated for 8 or 9 years) without getting to the hard conversations (and often at that point figure out that their values don't align which leaves two people wounded.

Intentional dating gets those conversations going during the first few dates where it will be easier to walk away without broken hearts if your values don't align.
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From the master of the Singles Forum himself--

We need to date for 8 or 9 years before getting to the hard conversations, OR we can just marry now and forget about dating, so it will be easier to walk away with a broken heart.

Is that right?

Now what it our topic of hard conversations meant to be during this courtshipping? Do we talk about coffee? Do our values align?

Latte, moccacino, cappucino, flat white, espresso? I know that much about coffee and that coffee grounds are good for the garden and thats the extent of it.

What about you.
 
1. Hard question

My dad drinks Nescafe Fine Blend.
He makes his own coffee, just spoons it out of the jar, with teaspoon of sugar then adds freshly boiled water , stirs it and then adds milk.

How do you do your coffee?
 
2. Small activity

Crossword puzzle, or word search? There is not many small activities we can do at a cafe.
 
NewFoundFaith said:
I live in Ireland so I know what you’re talking about but I have never heard of people refusing others because of their name!. It might be true but I’ve never seen it!.
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Howdy and welcome to the forum.

This is a very silly, quite farcical thread. Not serious at all. You gotta just roll with it. :cool:
 
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Lanolin said:
We need to date for 8 or 9 years before getting to the hard conversations, OR we can just marry now and forget about dating, so it will be easier to walk away with a broken heart.
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I say, ‘No pain, no Gain’. I’m an ‘all in’ guy, all my eggs are in one basket. All my effort is focused on one special lady. All the incentive is on making it work, no back up plans.

Lanolin said:
How do you do your coffee?
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One cup - light brown like sugar, sweet like Carmel. (Same way I like my women)

Lanolin said:
Crossword puzzle, or word search? There is not many small activities we can do at a cafe.
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Both are fun. I can think of a few wholesome activities. Sharing one side of the booth, whispering into each others ear, gazing deep into each others eyes. We could both reach for the check and let our hands touch. After, you can take my arm as we casually stroll through the city. Find a shady park bench to watch the sunset.
 
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Some more not-easy questions...

1.Are you for real? I'm pretty sure guys don't have eggs. It's the preserve of ladies. 🪺
2.Carmel...or caramello? 🍫
3. Is this at the Hello Kitty Cafe? 😻
 
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