Date or court?

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tourist

tourist

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TabinRivCA said:
I wouldn't make it complicated, just step out in faith and get on with it. Of course getting to know them through Christian sites first goes without saying. Btw you mentioned you like the goodies your ma made in another Thread well have you noticed there's some ladies around here who specialize in cooking sweets? 🙏👩‍🍳 (ok, what are you waiting for then?😂)
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I like your style. :)
 
Talljake

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TabinRivCA said:
You're right, thinking of yourself as shy, will only stop you from progress, and it's not a word used in the KJV. Try this on instead, 'be a confident man in the Lord' 👍
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Yes amen❤️
 
melita916

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My husband says our daughter isn’t dating until she’s 30. We’ll see how that goes 😂
 
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Talljake said:
Hi everyone 🙂

I have a question for you all. So let's say you found someone your interested in. You would like to get to know them, find out who they are and see if they have faith.

You finally muster up the courage to ask them out do you

A) ask them to go out on a date, witch most likely means just the two of you?

Or

B) ask them to court then witch most likely indicates there being a third party with you?

Like I have said before, there is no one that I'm currently trying to see. Yes I do believe the lord is who chooses who we are to be with if he chooses us to marry. This is just to see where people stand in their opinion. Please don't turn this into an arguing situation. This is just a question of me wondering.

Thank you for your response in advance
God bless❤️
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Hmm... good question.

Ya know, in the OT, I'm not sure there was even such a thing as dating. I think they just married! Does anyone know more about this to correct me if I'm wrong?

I think they decided if a person was decent and worthy as a spouse, they would then pursue marriage with them.
 
Lanolin

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How about both. A court date. Someone needs to act as judge and serve a summons. We can all be the jury on CC.
 
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Talljake said:
Hi everyone 🙂

I have a question for you all. So let's say you found someone your interested in. You would like to get to know them, find out who they are and see if they have faith.

You finally muster up the courage to ask them out do you

A) ask them to go out on a date, witch most likely means just the two of you?

Or

B) ask them to court then witch most likely indicates there being a third party with you?

Like I have said before, there is no one that I'm currently trying to see. Yes I do believe the lord is who chooses who we are to be with if he chooses us to marry. This is just to see where people stand in their opinion. Please don't turn this into an arguing situation. This is just a question of me wondering.

Thank you for your response in advance
God bless❤️
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now-a-days, neither! if i was interested in knowing a woman i would ask if she would like a conversation, most likely about the Bible at a fine classy establishment. i would choose a coffee shop, snacks too. remember, this is not a date. another title would be "a get together".
 
victoriangent1961

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In the OT, most marriages were arranged by parents. Except for in the case of Jacob, he had to work for 14 years to acquire the wife he wanted. I might have given up after the 1st month and moved on.
I may be old school, but to me, a date is getting to a person by spending time over coffee or a meal. To some, a date has to be specific mentioned as a date, or the time is only getting to know the other person to see if they are compatible for dating. Courtship, to me was going steady or being in a relationship with someone. This does not mean however, that there is a commitment for marriage. Courtship is a learning process to determine if they are the right person to marry without lowering standards. They say the average relationship is 2-3 years before discussing marriage. A lot depends also on the age.
 
Lanolin

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Build a little playhouse on your playdate. Start young, maybe from age 3 and you be ready by age 12.
 
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