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I know that it's frowned upon for a Christian girl to date men who aren't Christians, but I can't date Christian men. I haven't met one who I get along with. I think I'm just so different from the rest of the Christian community, but I would never change a single thing about myself.
For one: I'm a big supporter of the lgbt community. Jesus hung around lepers and prostitutes, I hang around a lot of gays. I tell them about Jesus, and I send them bible quotes, and I do everything in my power to help them find the Lord. Thats what it means to be Christian, in my book. Helping sinners find Christ.
I also have a lot of piercings (three on each of my lobes, my ears are gauged to 9/16ths, belly button, three cartilage and an industrial, as well as my nose). I dye and bleach my hair often. I'm getting tattoos next month. If my body is a temple, I'm going to decorate it.
The guy who I'm seeing right now is 20, he has gauges, a septum piercing, tattoos, and plays in a few metal bands. This had made a lot of my friends uneasy when they meet him, but the thing is, he's really sweet, and he's a great person, and he believes in Christ.
I feel like Christian guys judge me based on my appearance. There are lots of great looking guys at my church, and some of them have liked me, but it never lasts. There's just something missing. I'm not willing to change the way I look, or my friends, or even my attitude for a man. I just wish I could meet a good Christian boy who liked me for me. :/
My past relationships were with:
-a die hard atheist.
-a boy who claimed christianity, but said religion was stupid.
-a boy who went to church with me, but then went and slept around becos I wasn't "fulfilling his sexual needs with my abstinance."
I'm just a bit stressed about all of this. Especially cos I'm dying my hair lavander next month, I feel like it's going to get even more difficult.
For one: I'm a big supporter of the lgbt community. Jesus hung around lepers and prostitutes, I hang around a lot of gays. I tell them about Jesus, and I send them bible quotes, and I do everything in my power to help them find the Lord. Thats what it means to be Christian, in my book. Helping sinners find Christ.
I also have a lot of piercings (three on each of my lobes, my ears are gauged to 9/16ths, belly button, three cartilage and an industrial, as well as my nose). I dye and bleach my hair often. I'm getting tattoos next month. If my body is a temple, I'm going to decorate it.
The guy who I'm seeing right now is 20, he has gauges, a septum piercing, tattoos, and plays in a few metal bands. This had made a lot of my friends uneasy when they meet him, but the thing is, he's really sweet, and he's a great person, and he believes in Christ.
I feel like Christian guys judge me based on my appearance. There are lots of great looking guys at my church, and some of them have liked me, but it never lasts. There's just something missing. I'm not willing to change the way I look, or my friends, or even my attitude for a man. I just wish I could meet a good Christian boy who liked me for me. :/
My past relationships were with:
-a die hard atheist.
-a boy who claimed christianity, but said religion was stupid.
-a boy who went to church with me, but then went and slept around becos I wasn't "fulfilling his sexual needs with my abstinance."
I'm just a bit stressed about all of this. Especially cos I'm dying my hair lavander next month, I feel like it's going to get even more difficult.