The man who pursue purity
A person who pursue purity will definitely understand the value of not conforming to what the world expectation/standard this applies to both sexes.
I personally witness that with men I know at my current church here and close friends
My nephew would not enter his friend (girl) room instead they open the door and he will sit outside the door as they talk. And his sister do the same she will always entertain her boyfriend in the living room where everyone could see them.
- A young adult guy would not go inside his girlfriend house if he know its just the two of them he will wait outside in his car until the parents arrived.
- Same with friends they will always don’t allow themselves to be in tempted/ compromise place so they always on open/ public area or do group dates☺️
- You may find this crazy at some point some of my gentlemen friends who had mentoring from their mentors at church as they pursue living in purity even in waiting…they make sure if they make carpool with ladies they tell us to sit at the backseat because they’re reserving the passenger’s seat to their future wife😅😅😅 and now most of them are married and we tell their wives about this they are amazed and the practice still happening and been passing to their single men under their young adult group
This applies to anyone and No judgement if we lost it before. The moment you decided to have this covenant with God to live in purity this is become normal life style. Be reminded we generally attract who we are, not who we want. We should aim to become the type of person you are looking for is looking for🙏🤍
