Mostly what others think, it no longer matters , what matters is the love we are called to in Jesus.
The things one sees as needing to be done, matter little to the ones in our life and the love shown to them.
Also, the entrapments of the world, simply because, one sees what the world offers, is transitory, will pass.
One no longer is concerned about a bucket list, but life that is eternal.
I think we each have different things we think are inportant, one day though, one wakes up and sees how little such things mattered.
God bless