I think the bigger question is should pastors be the final say as the head or under Shepard in the Church, that's the real question. Which the reality is that we've so program about pastors being the ones that run the Church with the help of elders and deacons, that when this comes up we naturally go to I Timothy and Titus, when Paul is talking about overseers, elders and deacons, not pre at all. With that in view, a women can be a pastor, but she doesn't meet the qualification of an overseer, elder or deacon, because they all are to be the husband of one wife, a women can't be a husband or have a wife.
Philippians 1:1-2 "Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus,To all the saints in Christ Jesus who are at Philippi, with the overseers and deacons: 2 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ."
In I Timothy Paul says, deacons likewise, they should meet the same standards of the overseer. Paul gives the criteria for a worker or servant of the Lord in II Timothy 2:14-26 "Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers.15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.16 But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness,17 and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus,18 who have swerved from the truth, saying that the resurrection has already happened. They are upsetting the faith of some.19 But God's firm foundation stands, bearing this seal: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity.”20 Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.
22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23 Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. 24 And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, 25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will."
Paul says nothing about leadership here, this should apply to all believers, notice also Paul names Hymenaeus and Philters, as swerving from the faith or being apostasies of the faith, so the idea that you should not call people our for heretical doctrine is out the window. If you are a servant of the Lord you are called to call them out and show them and others through the Word of God why they are wrong. So that God might grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth.
So Angela's right, there is nothing about women not being pastors, because pastors are not to be leaders of the Church, they are for the equipping of the saints. Now coming the question should women teach with authority over men? Paul already answered that. By looking at all the women teachers out there, they all teach a false doctrine, sorry ladies. Two cases were a man was persuaded by the wives that turned out bad. First one Adam, "And to Adam he said,
“Because you have listened to the voice of your wife
and have eaten of the tree
of which I commanded you,
‘You shall not eat of it,’
cursed is the ground because of you;
in pain you shall eat of it all the days of your life;
18 thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you;
and you shall eat the plants of the field."
we are all sinners because he listened to her, Abram "And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai.3 So, after Abram had lived ten years in the land of Canaan, Sarai, Abram's wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her servant, and gave her to Abram her husband as a wife.4 And he went in to Hagar, and she conceived. And when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress." Genesis 16:2-4 the result of listening to his wife, "He shall be a wild donkey of a man,
his hand against everyone
and everyone's hand against him,
and he shall dwell over against all his kinsmen."
Who are Ishmael's kinsmen, the Jews, are all the other people that live in the middle east of the 12 from Ismael? I have no clue, but they stand against them quite a bit.
It seems that the Holy Spirit used the first story to relate that women should not teach with authority over men, in I Timothy 2:14, because both men listened the voice of their wife. Can women be pastors, yes, in the sense that they can teach with authority over men, no. With the bigger picture being where does it say that pastors are the main leader or even to lead a Church with elders and deacons bing under them or where the overseer is to lead soley, because some say that an overseer is the pastor? The Church should be lead by a presbytery of overseers, elders and deacons, it really is a beautiful thing. No shot caller, super star or the buck stops here type.
Ephesians 4:11-16 "And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, [SUB]12 [/SUB]for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, 13 till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ; 14 that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, 15 but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ— 16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love."
Notice it does not separate pastors and teachers, where it does with all the rest and some apostles, some prophets, some evangelists some pastors and teachers, not some pastors and some teachers.