I could write a trilogy about the mess my life was, so I do the last part synopsis. Once there was a young dude, bit broken, tried college, so moved to the city, and moved into an apartment, because the landlady had such an amazing smile and eyes, instant spark. So, we ended up in an undefined relationship, that lasted romantically for over 10 years. Flunked college, got disability. Very happy for many years, ecstatic. Was also on antdepressants, smoked hash. Sometimes shared bed, sometimes not. Got a bit messy with her seeing ex boyfriends, and others, and me slipping a few times. But we kind of had the trust and love still, and I think we both have it now, 10 years after it ended. Backstory.
Then it got to much for me to take, so I confronted her, and wanted to talk, and have some honesty, she just denied. And she did the same to me, I refused. Then we kept going with hurting eachother and pressuring eachother for some years, and she enlisted my friends, to attack me, since I had spilled some secrets about them, and some druguse and sale. She is very good at manipulating, worke on me for years. Soon enough she had my family too, since I reacted with anger towards those busting into my peronal relation, that I sort out myself, or fail in doing so. So my "friends" got me to take some hard drug as vengence when I was weak. So, I just gave up and shut the world out. Alone forever, in anger, while being heartbroken and betrayed by all the people I loved.
10 years later, I moved back to my granny's old house, off grid, reading the bible. After a some warnings from the heart in labour, in december before christmas. Off grid for 3 months, reading the bible and other stuff. I got a calm, and let go. Took back control of the life I did not care about. And got another thing with the heart heavy lifting in april or may. real bad. So I called the EX, and wanted to end the anger, and tell her that I did not hate her and forgive her. She would not let me. And told her I would have to talk to my family, and take my mother out of play, seeing as she got very sick and has operations to go through. Well, that set things in motion. She was in panic, and pretty soon my brother came here, and was insisting on hard manual labour for me, chopping trees, carrying heavy objects, etc. Knowing it would kill me if I just shutup as usual, and just did it. So I got my answers, and tried. So now I hopped off all branches on the family tree apart from my parents, and the EX who wants me dead, and one of her children that I raised a little. Made it official, by telling her. And saw the sorrow in my former brothers eyes. So now, none can be used to hurt me, and in turn hurt my parents health. I never imagined my former brothers were so emotionally weak, that they prioritized getting me back, over our common mums health. So, now I am at peace, they are not used because a mistake I made, my mistake and her secrets are safe, my father and mother get some peace. And I live nextdoor, if they want to speak to me. And I can speak to my former brothers as humanbeings if they wish, but they can never enter my life again. I could not withstand this without faith, it is amazing
Then it got to much for me to take, so I confronted her, and wanted to talk, and have some honesty, she just denied. And she did the same to me, I refused. Then we kept going with hurting eachother and pressuring eachother for some years, and she enlisted my friends, to attack me, since I had spilled some secrets about them, and some druguse and sale. She is very good at manipulating, worke on me for years. Soon enough she had my family too, since I reacted with anger towards those busting into my peronal relation, that I sort out myself, or fail in doing so. So my "friends" got me to take some hard drug as vengence when I was weak. So, I just gave up and shut the world out. Alone forever, in anger, while being heartbroken and betrayed by all the people I loved.
10 years later, I moved back to my granny's old house, off grid, reading the bible. After a some warnings from the heart in labour, in december before christmas. Off grid for 3 months, reading the bible and other stuff. I got a calm, and let go. Took back control of the life I did not care about. And got another thing with the heart heavy lifting in april or may. real bad. So I called the EX, and wanted to end the anger, and tell her that I did not hate her and forgive her. She would not let me. And told her I would have to talk to my family, and take my mother out of play, seeing as she got very sick and has operations to go through. Well, that set things in motion. She was in panic, and pretty soon my brother came here, and was insisting on hard manual labour for me, chopping trees, carrying heavy objects, etc. Knowing it would kill me if I just shutup as usual, and just did it. So I got my answers, and tried. So now I hopped off all branches on the family tree apart from my parents, and the EX who wants me dead, and one of her children that I raised a little. Made it official, by telling her. And saw the sorrow in my former brothers eyes. So now, none can be used to hurt me, and in turn hurt my parents health. I never imagined my former brothers were so emotionally weak, that they prioritized getting me back, over our common mums health. So, now I am at peace, they are not used because a mistake I made, my mistake and her secrets are safe, my father and mother get some peace. And I live nextdoor, if they want to speak to me. And I can speak to my former brothers as humanbeings if they wish, but they can never enter my life again. I could not withstand this without faith, it is amazing