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NOTE: Some people believe there has been a kind of "feminizing"
of the church, so that many men don't feel comfortable getting
involved. Too much wishy-washy music, tugging at the heart-strings,
and softly-softly preaching. Is there a revolution coming where this is
going to change? Below are some insightful comments on this:

WHERE are THE MEN??

Rodney Francis writes:
"In my travels around the world I continually notice in Christian
meetings the shortage of MEN! While putting this article together,
I spoke in a church I had not been to before, and could not help
but notice the shortage of men in the meeting. So I counted up the
adults - and the women outnumbered the men seven to one!

"Men always seem to be in the minority. I remember a number of
years ago reading the statistics of people on the mission fields of
the world. It was a staggering sixteen women to every one man!
This does not seem to be right, nor is it God's will that more and
more responsibility for the proclaiming of the Gospel should be
upon the women (this in no way reflects upon the women - many
are doing a marvellous work). But we do have to ask,
"WHERE are the MEN?""

Rosalie Foote writes:
"We were talking about this amongst ourselves and came up with
the fact that men like to do things. Sitting in the pew was never
what God wanted. David's mighty men were doing people - they
were already doing things before they came to support David.
Men love to work together and see a result, practically or
spiritually. That's why there are so many men's service clubs
now - they are the pseudo church. God's people are all supposed
to be doing stuff. Everyone has gifts and should be using these
gifts for the furtherence of God's Kingdom."

Tom Whitestone writes:
"Quote:
"Some people believe there has been a kind of "feminizing" of the
church, so that many men don't feel comfortable getting involved.
Too much wishy-washy music, tugging at the heart-strings, and
softly-softly preaching. Is there a revolution coming where this is
going to change?"

Answer:
"The "feminizing" is not specifically of the church but the spirit
within the church. From my experience speaking with other men
I have found them to be oppressed by the very spirit of "Love"
within the "church" that has disguised itsef as the Spirit of Love.
The church has become a habitation of unclean spirits and this
has darkened the Gospel that was given by Holy men of God.
The spirit that has infiltrated the "church" has caused many men
who are "real men" to be repulsed by its presence."

KDT writes:
"My pastor's wife suddenly kept getting the word from the Lord
"Get rid of the pink in the church!" "Get rid of the Pink!" We
looked around the beautiful sanctuary, decorated so elegantly,
yet predominantly feminine mauves and muted pinks." It was a
word for our church and we knew it was because we had many
more women than men, something we'd been praying about."
 
NOTE: Some people believe there has been a kind of "feminizing"
of the church, so that many men don't feel comfortable getting
involved. Too much wishy-washy music, tugging at the heart-strings,
and softly-softly preaching. Is there a revolution coming where this is
going to change? Below are some insightful comments on this:

WHERE are THE MEN??

Rodney Francis writes:
"In my travels around the world I continually notice in Christian
meetings the shortage of MEN! While putting this article together,
I spoke in a church I had not been to before, and could not help
but notice the shortage of men in the meeting. So I counted up the
adults - and the women outnumbered the men seven to one!

"Men always seem to be in the minority. I remember a number of
years ago reading the statistics of people on the mission fields of
the world. It was a staggering sixteen women to every one man!
This does not seem to be right, nor is it God's will that more and
more responsibility for the proclaiming of the Gospel should be
upon the women (this in no way reflects upon the women - many
are doing a marvellous work). But we do have to ask,
"WHERE are the MEN?""

Rosalie Foote writes:
"We were talking about this amongst ourselves and came up with
the fact that men like to do things. Sitting in the pew was never
what God wanted. David's mighty men were doing people - they
were already doing things before they came to support David.
Men love to work together and see a result, practically or
spiritually. That's why there are so many men's service clubs
now - they are the pseudo church. God's people are all supposed
to be doing stuff. Everyone has gifts and should be using these
gifts for the furtherence of God's Kingdom."

Tom Whitestone writes:
"Quote:
"Some people believe there has been a kind of "feminizing" of the
church, so that many men don't feel comfortable getting involved.
Too much wishy-washy music, tugging at the heart-strings, and
softly-softly preaching. Is there a revolution coming where this is
going to change?"

Answer:
"The "feminizing" is not specifically of the church but the spirit
within the church. From my experience speaking with other men
I have found them to be oppressed by the very spirit of "Love"
within the "church" that has disguised itsef as the Spirit of Love.
The church has become a habitation of unclean spirits and this
has darkened the Gospel that was given by Holy men of God.
The spirit that has infiltrated the "church" has caused many men
who are "real men" to be repulsed by its presence."

KDT writes:
"My pastor's wife suddenly kept getting the word from the Lord
"Get rid of the pink in the church!" "Get rid of the Pink!" We
looked around the beautiful sanctuary, decorated so elegantly,
yet predominantly feminine mauves and muted pinks." It was a
word for our church and we knew it was because we had many
more women than men, something we'd been praying about."
I grew up believing that women were inherently better than men. My upbringing was responsible for this. Now I'm 70, I've come to see that men and women are different but neither are inherently superior. However, the church seems to be more geared to to women these days. If a man divorces, he will be forced to leave the fellowship no matter the reason for the divorce. The world is turning upside down with women more and more in control. This is contrary to God's ordering. And the world has infiltrated the church.

Isaiah states that it is a sign of God's judgement when women rule and children lord it over adults. How is it possible for a teenage girl to get so much attention? All she can do is tell people there is a problem. Big deal. Tell me the answer, young lady. Yet she has the ear of the leaders of nations. Young people have been overly promoted in schools and by politicians who realise that they are the voters of tomorrow. They know little of real life but they can sure tell older people off.

Men have themselves to blame for this as well. We did not have to give into women. We did not have to believe the lies we've been told about ourselves. We did not have to accept the lie that male=evil, female=innocent victim of male domination.

Men are the people who get things done. If they are allowed to, that is. That's as true in the world as it is in the church. If you want nothing to happen, form an all female committee.

Men were not created to be spectators. The body of Christ is made up of many, not a handful of paid professionals who control everything. If you want a Christlike church, everyone needs to be encouraged in their place in the body, even if it means failure and mistakes at times. How else are people going to learn?

When I led a youth group, I made sure that everyone had an opportunity to share a testimony. I gave a word one week and someone else would speak the next. My regret was that when I quit, there was no one from the group to replace me.
 
It has been foretold that women will be our leaders. I do not say this is good or bad, but it is foretold.
 
Didn't we just have this subject on another Thread?

In any case............IF the hypothesis of the Thread is true, men only have themselves to blame.

IF WOMEN are the ONLY people going to Church, then would the services NOT be directed towards them?