Wrath means 'extreme anger'. God doesn't have wrath for those He loves, but over those who are disobedient. You can't have wrath w/o hatred.exactly wrapt or punishment do not mean hate, in the contrary punishment mean love.
My Brother, the sooner you realize free will is a myth, the sooner you'll grasp how fallen the lost are.God love the world but ppl have a free Will, to chose to Eat the fruit of knowledge or not, to kill or to love, Bespcause of love God do not want the weak killer by the strong, to prevent this happen, God make punishment system.
all law product by God base oN Love ( matt 22:36-40)
The Law was given to make sin even more sinful. The Law is what brings us to the Christ.[Galatians 3]