Fruit of the Spirits!! :) What do you need to work on the most?

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sorry for not putting in more words so you knew what i meant - i unfortunatley swear - it was a habit and it can be kicked in 21 days (they even said this in church - not in regards to swearing lol, so that for me is self control i;m working on, but in all fairness - you guys jump and i mean jump as soon as u see something outta place and it can be a little off putting for this site
 
Sorry cindles, we try to help in correction of things that aren't in the Word. Some people do it to help, others are just wanting to find contention.
 
The Bible discussion forum does tend to turn into a boxing ring... But not all attempts at correction are meant to pick fights.

Time for me to fight with my pillow. Good night!
 
So in my last thread i asked whats your favourite Passage and this was mine

Galatians 5:22-26




22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.

The fruits i need to work on at this particular moment (besides all of them - as we are always having to work on these fruits) is:

Patience, Self-control, Peace - these are the once i would like to concentrate on for a month

Why a month you as - well it can take 21 days to make/break a habit,, so i try to improve myself for a month (on fruit at a time), then it will stick - with ongoing work of course :)
your wasting your time asking people not to become conceited, provoking and envying each other here,,

you can ask them please at the beginning of the thread
,, and one can only try..like you have done here,, but most people here will only stop provoking you until your dead or there dead.. this is not a christian only chat site.. its place where many denominations hang out,, its place where satanists hang out and atheists,, people with agendas who are not christian claiming to be christian to bring down Christianity. basically this place is a breeding ground for fear mongers and terrorists.

but there are some good here but i am still trying to work out if the good here out-ways the bad,,, (i am struggling)

There are so many people who hate Christianity and so many badly indoctrinated Christians believing and falling for the lies and deceptiveness of people who claim to be christian and there evil twisted doctrines.

The Romans have been trying to wipe out Christianity since the rise of Christianity,, now its more or less the whole world.



its a place where people say your OK to sin and they don't get told of for it,, it a place where people get victimized by long standing members and they don't get told of for it.

its a place where you here people saying there a christian and there married and they will continue to commit adultery but there OK because there future sins are forgiven, again no one says anything,, why because there scared because they no the person is a loud mouth bully,, but still nothing gets done about it.

now all the problems i mentioned here are from people who say there christian,, well what about the the the new believer who hears this... ?? but again no one does anything or says nothing. again you can except this behavior from a new believer, but someone who is mature in age and claims to be a mature christian should no better not to mock to slander to show racism of any sort,, wouldn't you say ?(nor jew nor gentile God has made no distinction but still i am praying.. i understand that some are genuinely hurting,, but some are just plain old evil..and of course pray for them too..,, that way you can not hate someone you pray for..the haters of this world would like you to hate to,, nope not going to happen,, god bless
 
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are you gonna say i should not go to my church - cause they teach similar - and they are not fake - joyce may not be you're cup of tea - but i dont think you have the right to say her teachings are false, people need to stop jumping on here its off putting
 
and it does say in the bible that the fruits of the tree can die wither away (paraphrasing)
 
are you gonna say i should not go to my church - cause they teach similar - and they are not fake - joyce may not be you're cup of tea - but i dont think you have the right to say her teachings are false, people need to stop jumping on here its off putting
yes i said that many times to (this is so off putting listening to hate and racism from people who say there christian here but after 2 years of insults no one listens...
 
hey thanks for that - never clicked it would not be just christian responses, and i do put people up on a petal stool unfortunately, i respect other people i expect the same - but life is not like that :), i need to work on self control - i.e. biting my tounge
 
yeah and maybe the good people will listen to you.. but not the people with agendas,, good look with that one all the best,, bye james..
 
are you gonna say i should not go to my church - cause they teach similar - and they are not fake - joyce may not be you're cup of tea - but i dont think you have the right to say her teachings are false, people need to stop jumping on here its off putting

Cindles, I have heard her preach and I have witnessed things that she has said that aren't biblical. I'm just trying to tell you that. She belongs to a denomination called 'word of faith'. I just want you to be careful, many don't realize it until they are shown it.
 
cindles,

you have reminded us what the scriptures tells we must do.
the book of Hebrews states this principle in a different way,
it tells us all that after we understand the basic tenents of faith,
then we MUST move on ,'let us go on to perfection'.
another scripture tells us, 'that even as your Father in Heaven
is perfect, so also should you strive to be perfect.'

the humility of Paul teaches us that we must continually
work to walk in the footsteps of our Lord Jesus Christ.
((as he says,' not as though I have already attained'.))

our Bible gives us so many examples that we are to follow,
analogies, like the bearing of fruit. all fruit certainly takes
a while to ripen and mature, mostly it starts out sour or bitter
before it sweetens and is acceptable and tasty to eat and enjoy.

we all should rejoice in these amazing opportunities we are
blessed with to bring forth sweet, spiritual fruits.

for myself, listening instead of interjecting my own thoughts
before others finish what they are trying to say, has been
a real trial, and I must share with you, the beautiful part
of learning to do this is just one more way that teaches me
to love my neighbor as myself.



which one of us does not want to be heard, understood and acknowledged?:)
 
Its not right to question ones walk with the lord, If Joyce Meyer helps her find her way to God, and helps her learn and read and pray and seek, who is anyone to question? we all fall short of God..ALL! why do we all feel the need to judge a person? that is Gods position to do, cindles just pray to god that you receive the message in you the HE would want you too, whomever you may listen to or read from..we as Christians can sit and debate point after point, and dig at every teensy thing..when we should be congratulating and lifting this woman up in Christ! lets not belabor every little point, and be kind, please..we are not in her shoes, encourage and help her is what we should be trying to do!
 
Yeah, I was a bit of a smart butt with my last comment. I shouldn't do that to the new people, I should save that for my friends who know I'm not attacking them. You are welcome here and like I said it is good that you want to grow in character and the fruit of the spirit. I will try to help by not making any more posts that may tempt you to swear :)
 
love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self- control. None of these have been perfected in me, i need more of all. i have been asking the Father to help me in the area of having compassion for people. Not to just jump to conclusion of why, but to see people through the eyes of Jesus. This world has turned upside down since i was a child. Just the other day i was telling my son, when my generation is gone out of this world, that the world is really in for it. Christ Jesus be with you.
 
i understand that and thanks, i dont mind some correction - but in reality - God should be the only one correcting me (and myself) yes sometimes others need to come in) you all need to understand there are many religions and many denominations and they may not be yours, but they are someones - just because you think its wrong - does not make it wrong....to be honest, i don;t think God would be to impressed with this whole thread. now i know have things to learn (i'm not exactly a new believer - just been away from GOD for too long) but some people who replied on this thread need to learn some humility.

We are all born with these fruits/gifts but its how we walk with god and conduct ourselves and treat others -as to how these fruits will grow, if we say we walk in god - but don't have much in the way of humility - self control - then their fruits are not going to be full - they need to work on those fruits through god and themselves.

Working on = remembering that god wants you to be a kind person, who has faith, joy love, peacefulness, patience, humility etc, but we have proved on this thread that we are only human and make mistakes.
 
I do luv on here that you cant even ask a general question -without people delving deep and making the question more that what it was meant to be, and we can work on the fruits in how we walk with god and conduct ourselves, i think i will move this thread into the random part - as you are going to biblical and technical than what it was meant to be -

Hi cindles, I for one like the question . . . my first thought was 'all of them". . .lol . . .

I find that some come easier than others - I need to work on self-control and forbearance mostly. And I for one do not believe that they come automatically - why else would we be told to put off the old and put on the new?


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Just for the record, it is the FRUIT of the Spirit, not FRUIT's of the Spirit
 
Hi cindles, I for one like the question . . . my first thought was 'all of them". . .lol . . .

Same here!! Just today I found myself losing my temper with a family member and snapping at them, getting impatient with a coworker, thinking in an unkindly way about said coworker, and eating some ice cream when I got home because I was stressed out about work. There are a lot of things I need to work on, with God's help.
 
I need patience. Patience in dealing with others concerning Scripture and the importance of sticking to it AND remembering that things do not happen of my clock but rather on the clock of the Almighty, Father Yahweh.