I've decided not to plan any more dates.
It just seems it's the guy wants to do all the planning, and when he's out of ideas, nothing happens. Also, if he doesn't want to do something, he'll just say next time or not today, and it doesn't end up happening.
If he can't plan a date, can you imagine how he would plan a wedding? Also, apparently, women aren't meant to plan dates for men. Or drive them anywhere. Well not at first. You not allowed to boast about your car. Maybe there's a bit of leeway, but you'll just end up driving them crazy.