How can I let go of the hate when jealus.

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Brasspen

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jealous.
Someone has made me jealous, they hurt me by walking up to two girls I was looking at. Two girls I liked and started courting then. As he was doing it he was giving me a look.

It made me angry, depressed, and hate. What can I do let go of this. I want to forgive him and line up christ.
 
Brasspen said:
jealous.
Someone has made me jealous, they hurt me by walking up to two girls I was looking at. Two girls I liked and started courting then. As he was doing it he was giving me a look.

It made me angry, depressed, and hate. What can I do let go of this. I want to forgive him and line up christ.
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This article is quite long but the truth in it will set you free. I had to forgive my ex wife after she disappeared with my two children. I did not see them again for 15 years. The principles in the article work in real life.

 
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Brasspen said:
jealous.
Someone has made me jealous, they hurt me by walking up to two girls I was looking at. Two girls I liked and started courting then. As he was doing it he was giving me a look.

It made me angry, depressed, and hate. What can I do let go of this. I want to forgive him and line up christ.
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Actually, they did not make you jealous. Jealousy was your reaction to an event. That guy did nothing wrong, so he does not need your forgiveness.

Maybe his “look” said, “There are two, one for me, one for you.”

Those two females do not belong to you. And you only need one woman to be happy. What have you done to be nice to the one you like best?

Perhaps you should consider if God has selected one of the females for you to court and marry. If God is not involved, move on with your life.
 
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Brasspen said:
jealous.
Someone has made me jealous, they hurt me by walking up to two girls I was looking at. Two girls I liked and started courting then. As he was doing it he was giving me a look.

It made me angry, depressed, and hate. What can I do let go of this. I want to forgive him and line up christ.
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It is best to focus your attention on one girl at a time.
 
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Brasspen said:
jealous.
Someone has made me jealous, they hurt me by walking up to two girls I was looking at. Two girls I liked and started courting then. As he was doing it he was giving me a look.

It made me angry, depressed, and hate. What can I do let go of this. I want to forgive him and line up christ.
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You need to forgive, my friend Richard has not seen his girls for 10 years and he is harboring so much anger. Hatred is a portal for the enemy.
 
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He's not the one needing forgiveness
Forgiveness isn't for those who offend us
Forgiveness is for us and the hardness in our heart keeping us from fully fellowship with God
 
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