How do husbands feel about male gynecologists?

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rachelsedge said:
It seems that, at the core, this is less about "Is the doctor a perv/is my wife getting pleasure out of this" (I can tell you that it's highly unlikely that she is) and more of a "That is my wife, you are touching her and seeing her where only I should."

Stephen100 (or anyone who has responded), is that correct? Or are your issues all of the above of what I mentioned?
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Yes you are correct.
 
meggars said:
I've heard this ''face'' thing from you and the other fella whose name i can't remember in earlier posts....i'm not sure what experience you have with pelvic exams but it sounds like you've been sorely misinformed. nobody's face is being shoved anywhere. you know that, right? please tell me you're just speaking hyperbolically for the sake of supporting a weak point and that this isn't actually what somebody has led you to believe... 8s
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That's interesting, because I've come across women who have commented on how close the doctor put his face to their private parts when he examined them. You know very well that the doctor gets a good, close view, so please don't pretend like you don't know.
 
I understand you wanting to be the only man to see your wife that way and I think most women would respect that. But you're making it sound like pornography. It's a very most of the time short exam and they don't take a periscope and do an in-depth search. So please stop saying shoving their face in it. It's gross.
 
I don't understand the question. Men do not see gynecologists. I think the author is confused.
 
Fenner said:
I understand you wanting to be the only man to see your wife that way and I think most women would respect that. But you're making it sound like pornography. It's a very most of the time short exam and they don't take a periscope and do an in-depth search. So please stop saying shoving their face in it. It's gross.
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I'm not going to be politically correct on this subject. I've come across women who have commented how close the doctor put his face to their private area when giving them an exam. So yes, many doctors do put their face in other women's private parts. Oh, but if I have a problem with another man doing this to my wife, then that makes me the bad one. LOL, that's a classic example of turning truth on its head.
 
I just read some of the posts on this thread. I am wondering why a "banned" person is posting on any thread in here. Perhaps I misunderstand the term "banned." Can anyone clarify the meaning for me?
 
The first OB/GYN I went to when I was pregnant with my first kid was a woman. Also a lesbian. To me, THAT was seriously uncomfortable.

Would it bother you for your wife to see a lesbian gynecologist? What if neither of you knew she was lesbian?

It just seems like you're worrying- prematurely, I might add- about something that is just...a little ridiculous, really.
 
Stephen100 said:
I'm not going to be politically correct on this subject. I've come across women who have commented how close the doctor put his face to their private area when giving them an exam. So yes, many doctors do put their face in other women's private parts. Oh, but if I have a problem with another man doing this to my wife, then that makes me the bad one. LOL, that's a classic example of turning truth on its head.
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I don't think this makes you bad. But they don't stick their face right in your vagina. During child birth they look and pull the baby out. I am sure you're future wife will see a female doctor if that's what you want. But since you don't have a vagina and I'm assuming you've never seen a pap exam done then you really don't know.
 
Sudden said:
I just read some of the posts on this thread. I am wondering why a "banned" person is posting on any thread in here. Perhaps I misunderstand the term "banned." Can anyone clarify the meaning for me?
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That person was banned after those posts, he's not still posting here.
 
Is this part of a regular discussion you have with others? Maybe you should all take up bird watching.
 
MissCris said:
The first OB/GYN I went to when I was pregnant with my first kid was a woman. Also a lesbian. To me, THAT was seriously uncomfortable.

Would it bother you for your wife to see a lesbian gynecologist? What if neither of you knew she was lesbian?

It just seems like you're worrying- prematurely, I might add- about something that is just...a little ridiculous, really.
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Yer, I've heard the lesbian argument hundreds of times like a broken record. I've also refuted these arguments hundreds of times. They are so easy to refute I'm not even going to bother. All you're doing is siding with the lesser of two evils.
 
Fenner said:
I don't think this makes you bad. But they don't stick their face right in your vagina. During child birth they look and pull the baby out. I am sure you're future wife will see a female doctor if that's what you want. But since you don't have a vagina and I'm assuming you've never seen a pap exam done then you really don't know.
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I know exactly what happens in a pap test. Do you seriously think I haven't bothered to do my homework? Believe me, I have!
 
Stephen100 said:
Yer, I've heard the lesbian argument hundreds of times like a broken record. I've also refuted these arguments hundreds of times. They are so easy to refute I'm not even going to bother. All you're doing is siding with the lesser of two evils.
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I'm not "siding" with anything here; I was honestly curious.

I'm also curious why this whole thing is such a big issue right now for someone who isn't even married or, I'm guessing, dating anyone, either.

Anyway, that's twice now that I've asked you a question so that I could maybe see where you're coming from, and both times you failed to answer because you don't want to "bother". In which case, this is now a waste of my time.
 
MissCris said:
I'm not "siding" with anything here; I was honestly curious.

I'm also curious why this whole thing is such a big issue right now for someone who isn't even married or, I'm guessing, dating anyone, either.

Anyway, that's twice now that I've asked you a question so that I could maybe see where you're coming from, and both times you failed to answer because you don't want to "bother". In which case, this is now a waste of my time.
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Yes, because answering stupid questions is a waste of my time. Bringing up the lesbian argument is just taking the mickey, because it's another way of nitpicking something that has nothing to do with my original point. Sorry, but I'm not gonna play that game. I'll only answer sensible, realistic questions.
 
Ooh...now I'm knowingly wasting my time (and effort), but...

The lesbian "argument" wasn't an argument. Also, I thought this thread was about men feeling bothered by another man examining his wife's private area BECAUSE of the perverted thoughts that MUST be going through the doctor's head- in which case, wouldn't a lesbian possibly have the same perverted thoughts?

Anyway, after seeing your posts on other forums, I realize that you're just hostile towards women (in a thinly veiled manner).

I'm a woman, and so anything I say you are going to ignore or insult. So, whatever. I'm out.
 
MissCris said:
Ooh...now I'm knowingly wasting my time (and effort), but...

The lesbian "argument" wasn't an argument. Also, I thought this thread was about men feeling bothered by another man examining his wife's private area BECAUSE of the perverted thoughts that MUST be going through the doctor's head- in which case, wouldn't a lesbian possibly have the same perverted thoughts?

Anyway, after seeing your posts on other forums, I realize that you're just hostile towards women (in a thinly veiled manner).

I'm a woman, and so anything I say you are going to ignore or insult. So, whatever. I'm out.
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Like I said, I don't answer silly questions that are used to evade the real point. All the best :)
 
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