How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single?
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Know how you feel...on this one. A girl liked me and we texted for a while she is in Montana at the air force academy. Things just fizzled out, we never talk to each other any more. But, hey its not even a relationship. I've only known her for 1 week.
She says I'm too good for her cause she's not a virgin (I am), she smoked, she drank, and she has cursed. She is a Christian and does love Jesus and God.
I told her that does not change things between us. But, you can tell it did. Its really sad this kind of person would be well suited for the kind of man God made me to be.
Just breaks your heart when people don't want whats good for them.
She says I'm too good for her cause she's not a virgin (I am), she smoked, she drank, and she has cursed. She is a Christian and does love Jesus and God.
I told her that does not change things between us. But, you can tell it did. Its really sad this kind of person would be well suited for the kind of man God made me to be.
Just breaks your heart when people don't want whats good for them.
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I have been single for 5 years technically.. I did have a quick relationship with my first christian man end of january that ended end of april this year. It was painful but not as much as it would have been had I stayed with him longer it was nice because I had always been unequally yoked before and suffered much abuse and truly had low standards for myself..this time my standards were a bit higher and even tho you can be unequally yoked even as christians, I did have my first relationship where he did treat me like a princess the first two months.. it faded however and he started to be rude and we broke it off..cause I wasn't having it ! yay me Anyway I still think of myself as being single for 5 years with a bump in the road ! lol to me Single is divorced (legally) not married..or never married..
it was nice because I had always been unequally yoked before and suffered much abuse and truly had low standards for myself..this time my standards were a bit higher and even tho you can be unequally yoked even as christians, I did have my first relationship where he did treat me like a princess the first two months.. it faded however and he started to be rude and we broke it off..cause I wasn't having it ! yay me Anyway I still think of myself as being single for 5 years with a bump in the road ! lol to me Single is divorced (legally) not married..or never married..
C
wow that is sad.. btw.. but remember that people call themselves christians quite loosely.. not everyone who says Lord Lord is known by Him. He says if you love me , keep my commands..they are also commiting adultery if they are in a relationship with a married person.. where do they get that they are not? If you give an alcoholic a drink, you are participating with him in the sin..it's the same thing..there is a scripture about being in bed with a sinner (in other words, if you are not trying to turn them around, you are partaking with them in your heart..making YOU as guilty)
These are people just justifying their sin..
These are people just justifying their sin..
