The Bible states in John that the Husband is the head of the family!!! Head mean leader or boss!!!
This subject has come up before. There is a second part to the "wives submit to husbands" argument. In Ephesians 5, verses 22 through 24, Paul wrote "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." In other words, the husband must be as
Christlike as possible if he is to expect submission. And what was Christ? Loving, compassionate, concerned, a servant.
In his letter to the church at Colossus, he summed it up more succinctly. [FONT="] "[/FONT]Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them." (Colossians 3:18-19, emphasis added) In other words, there are certain standards a husband must meet before he can demand submission.[FONT="] [/FONT]