I am hurting and need prayers

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I was in a relationship for one year and four months. Prayed about it and felt like this was the one having been married before. The young man decided to walk out without a understandable explanation. Won't accept my calls nor emails. This is the same practice my ex-husband did. Please pray for me. I really need it right now.
 
I will pray for you. May You find comfort through God because you won't find it anywhere else.
 
first off I am sorry for the pain that you found. I won't join in on the cliche whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I won't even tell you that the world is so sick that you shouldn't seek for understanding in the realm of blind twistedness. What I will say is that the Lord works in mysterious ways. The future none of us can see. Whatever the reason it came to an end. The fact he won't answer your calls or respond to mail just means he is a coward. He doesn't have a good reason he is shallow.. maybe his carnal desires for a different form of lust entices him and maybe you are lucky he chose to run before you had to find out the hard way. A true story I'd heard from a man while I was locked up. He came in to the jail to proclaim the Word of God. He said he was driving down a long open stretch of straight highway. There were only two cars on that stretch he could see him and a van next to him. For no particular reason maybe their cruise control was on the same speed they stayed side by side for 5-10 minutes.. about that time his tire blew out. and he cursed his luck.. he angrily pulled over and then he heard what sounded like an explosion and just up ahead and the next intersection an 18 wheeler ran the stop sign and killed the driver of that van instantly. It was then he knew how mysterious God could work. I can't tell you the reasons beneath this infinite threaded tapestry, but I can assure you whatever that man had deep within him or in his future you didn't want. Trust God and enter into his rest. Good luck
 
Wishes of comfort and understanding.

I know what it feels like.
This has happened to me also.
I had noone to turn to but Jesus and tried turning to person got "stop feeling sorry for yourself" although was heartbroken, life sucked out of me and my body was twisted with pain and depression.
I was when I most needed love and understanding I just got hate and ridecule.
I turned to jesus and prayed deepest of prayers.

Its better you dont "chase" him.
thats bad for your self esteem to run after someone who is saying "no im not interested" by not contacting you.
You should of been given a explanation so you could accept it and be clear of reason why.

Turn to friends , family, support, understanding etc (wish I had of had that)
Theres this site also and maybe you can chatt with someone here.

Plan something nice , maybe court yourself , but flowers for you from you or do something nice for you