Okay I wanna start with a little background about what's goin on and how it happened.
I'm in a relationship and have been for a year. Everything was good at first but then I noticed he was trying to talk to other women. Now he never said anything bad to these women but the problem was he lied about knowing them. Well I forgave him because he never tried to tell him he was single or anything. (I read the messages myself)
A few months later after everything was going good again I met a guy on FB. I was reading my bible one night and felt the need to send this guy on my "people you may know" list some of these verses.
He sent me back a long message saying how thankful he was because he was about to head to a party and start goin back to his old way of drinking and doin drugs. (The verses I sent him were about not loving the world and having a new life in Jesus)
Because of this we became very good friends (he lives down the street from me) our whole relationship is about God. We only talk about things that have to do with the Lord, bible or prayer.
He has a gf. They have problems all the time because she doesn't trust him and she doesn't really wanna sever God.
Okay now..
I've been having dreams about him every night for 6 months now. (I've known him for 8)
They aren't sexual but in my dreams we are in a relationship.
Its a beautiful one all about God. We pray together, study together, help out with the church and not a day goes by in theses dreams when we don't seek God about our relationship.
Well the past 3-4 months my bf and I have been fighting a lot.
I found him talking to other women again. He lies to me about everything. He won't let me have any guy friends. Blames me for him talking to other women. And I'm soooooo tired of it. Plus he doesn't respect my faith in God anymore. (That's killing me)
I'm going to leave him but I know I have to wait and seek God for strength because if not I'll break up with him then take him right back as soon as he tells me he is sorry and loves me. (Just like last time)
Now my friend came to me today and told me he left his gf because he can't stand being with a women who doesn't care for God.
He asked me to pray with him and I did. I felt kinda weird because I know in a way I was happy to hear he left her. But I became worried that maybe now that he is single I might cross the line with him because of theses dreams .
I don't wanna lose my friend over theses dreams.
Should I tell him about them?
I don't wanna feel guilty about theses dreams because I'm still in a "relationship"
I don't know what to do. I'm so confused and I didn't know who to turn to about this...
Sorry for taken up your time but I need help..
I'm in a relationship and have been for a year. Everything was good at first but then I noticed he was trying to talk to other women. Now he never said anything bad to these women but the problem was he lied about knowing them. Well I forgave him because he never tried to tell him he was single or anything. (I read the messages myself)
A few months later after everything was going good again I met a guy on FB. I was reading my bible one night and felt the need to send this guy on my "people you may know" list some of these verses.
He sent me back a long message saying how thankful he was because he was about to head to a party and start goin back to his old way of drinking and doin drugs. (The verses I sent him were about not loving the world and having a new life in Jesus)
Because of this we became very good friends (he lives down the street from me) our whole relationship is about God. We only talk about things that have to do with the Lord, bible or prayer.
He has a gf. They have problems all the time because she doesn't trust him and she doesn't really wanna sever God.
Okay now..
I've been having dreams about him every night for 6 months now. (I've known him for 8)
They aren't sexual but in my dreams we are in a relationship.
Its a beautiful one all about God. We pray together, study together, help out with the church and not a day goes by in theses dreams when we don't seek God about our relationship.
Well the past 3-4 months my bf and I have been fighting a lot.
I found him talking to other women again. He lies to me about everything. He won't let me have any guy friends. Blames me for him talking to other women. And I'm soooooo tired of it. Plus he doesn't respect my faith in God anymore. (That's killing me)
I'm going to leave him but I know I have to wait and seek God for strength because if not I'll break up with him then take him right back as soon as he tells me he is sorry and loves me. (Just like last time)
Now my friend came to me today and told me he left his gf because he can't stand being with a women who doesn't care for God.
He asked me to pray with him and I did. I felt kinda weird because I know in a way I was happy to hear he left her. But I became worried that maybe now that he is single I might cross the line with him because of theses dreams .
I don't wanna lose my friend over theses dreams.
Should I tell him about them?
I don't wanna feel guilty about theses dreams because I'm still in a "relationship"
I don't know what to do. I'm so confused and I didn't know who to turn to about this...
Sorry for taken up your time but I need help..