I got broken up with about a month ago…but,

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lillymc07

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I feel like God is still giving me hope that we will be together and married in the future, but I really don’t want to get in over my head like I know a lot of Christian singles do. However, I’ve been getting a lot of small signs that point to these feelings through scripture, but I could just reading into them, you know? The biggest confirmation, though, was when I was cuddling my cat yesterday, and praying to God. After a while of this, I could feel my cat getting restless and wanting to move away, and I found myself asking the Lord “if my ex is truly meant for me, then let my cat stay in my arms for a few more minutes”. And right after I prayed that prayer twice my cat laid back down. I did not expect her to this because, well, I didn’t expect God to give confirmation nor did I expect my cat to sit back down since she’s the type to be very determined to stick to her decisions once she decides she wants to leave. But, like I said, I really don’t want to get my hopes up too high. I can go into more detail if anyone needs more context, and any advice is welcome!
 
Howdy and welcome to the forum.

I am well acquainted with cats and their fickle nature. I would not consider this a make or break sign.

The best thing to do is just keep living life and see what happens. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't happen, move on and don't mourn it.
 
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Howdy and welcome to the forum.

I am well acquainted with cats and their fickle nature. I would not consider this a make or break sign.

The best thing to do is just keep living life and see what happens. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't happen, move on and don't mourn it.
i totally see what you mean, and i’m not discounting anything that you’ve said, but i feel like any sign that God could give us could lead to similar argument that you’ve given. i’m not saying your right or wrong, i just don’t want to doubt God if it truly is a sign. the sign seemed really clear to me and from God.
 
i totally see what you mean, and i’m not discounting anything that you’ve said, but i feel like any sign that God could give us could lead to similar argument that you’ve given. i’m not saying your right or wrong, i just don’t want to doubt God if it truly is a sign. the sign seemed really clear to me and from God.

Wonderful to hear of the response to your laying out a sheep skin!
I receive Holy Spirit manifesting in confirmation now, have in the past used the "sheepskin method", very successfully, what He does for one is available to all who are His Own.
Be aware many or most claim Christ don't know Him, they just know about Him and will give you uninspired comments, here at CC as well, Jesus experienced this as well, by their fruit you shall know them.
bless you
 
Interesting account about the cat. It is good also to seek God's guidance regarding a prospective relationship. Glad to have you onboard with us. Welcome to CC.