I need someone to save me.

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I pray that the Lord keep any and every woman on the face of this earth away from you at the moment - for both their protection and yours. You are going the wrong direction. Be angry, it’s okay, but don’t stay there. I know you can’t see it now but the advice given above by men and women, is real and balanced. Everybody in this thread has been gracious. As someone that has been married twice and in several relationships, I tell you this is all solid and godly counsel. You can’t see it now but I join with the others in this thread in praying for God’s intervention and best in your life.
 
I’ll add that I wish I had people like this giving me advice when I went sideways. This is what is supposed to happen in the body of Christ. I hope you will look back someday from the vantage point of a better outcome.

My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; Neither be weary of his correction: For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; Even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭11‬-‭12‬
 
I blame you all, because I think you all prayed against me.
I’m not sure who you are referring to, but just know no true Christian will pray “against you”; any true follower of Christ on here doesn’t want to see anyone suffer or hurt. If this issue makes you truly this distraught I really encourage you to reach out to your local church. Even if you’re not a member. There are and will be qualified pastors or counselors there who can offer you guidance, prayer, and steps to get through this. And remember, even if people fail you, God will never because He is the only true one who can save us. You’re not alone.
 
I was praying to God and Jesus Christ. An angel touched me on the back when I was laying down and gave me healing. I feel much better from injuries the devil has caused me.

As far as a girlfriend or wife. What your supposed to do is ask God for permission. There is not supposed to be any dating games, or long waiting times. You Ask God for permission.

An angel spoke to me and said that someone is coming my way.
 
I was praying to God and Jesus Christ. An angel touched me on the back when I was laying down and gave me healing. I feel much better from injuries the devil has caused me.

As far as a girlfriend or wife. What your supposed to do is ask God for permission. There is not supposed to be any dating games, or long waiting times. You Ask God for permission.

An angel spoke to me and said that someone is coming my way.
I do hope you’re doing a big better, but respectfully, that’s not how God works. First, we must set our eyes on Him and focus on our relationship with Him. Once you deal with the heart issue, continue in prayer that the right person will come along, and then in the right time you’ll meet someone who also puts God first. But that’s the whole point, you must put God first, and then the Bible says the rest will come after.
 
I was praying to God and Jesus Christ. An angel touched me on the back when I was laying down and gave me healing. I feel much better from injuries the devil has caused me.

As far as a girlfriend or wife. What your supposed to do is ask God for permission. There is not supposed to be any dating games, or long waiting times. You Ask God for permission.

An angel spoke to me and said that someone is coming my way.
This is concerning in multiple ways. Angels manifesting and healing people isn't something we see in scripture. In fact angels showing up at all is a pretty rare thing in the bible, they exist but rarely interact with people. And the only verse I can think of while reading this is the verse about satan can disguise himself as an angel of light 2Cor 11.

We're also told to test the spirits, just because something is presenting itself as an angel doesn't automatically mean it came from God.

And that whole idea of asking God for permission for a wife without any dating games or waiting, that seems to pretty much objectify the woman. You sound like she's just a gift for God to give out. It's doubly concerning when considering how this thread started as that implies you think God might give you permission to fornicate.

It seems like your view of God and how he works has little in common with the God revealed in the Bible. And it seems you're taking your cues much more from experiences with "angels" than what is plainly stated in the Bible.
 
I blame you all, because I think you all prayed against me.
I think you need to take a look at yourself first and foremost. That isn't being unloving. It's being kind because it's the truth.

I get the struggles with loneliness, sex and intimacy. However, God doesn't owe you anything. Nor me.

The greatest thing God can do is grant us salvation and a pardon for our sins. This means we get to spend eternity with Him, free from sin which entangles us.

He doesn't however promise us health, wealth or a partner.

I don't know much about you or your situation and won't pretend to.

What I will say is that you need to look for support. Take the time to look into Pure Life Ministries in Dry Ridge, Kentucky. The single best ministry for anything sex related within the Christian walk.

They can easily be found on YouTube and online.
 
This is concerning in multiple ways. Angels manifesting and healing people isn't something we see in scripture. In fact angels showing up at all is a pretty rare thing in the bible, they exist but rarely interact with people. And the only verse I can think of while reading this is the verse about satan can disguise himself as an angel of light 2Cor 11.

We're also told to test the spirits, just because something is presenting itself as an angel doesn't automatically mean it came from God.

And that whole idea of asking God for permission for a wife without any dating games or waiting, that seems to pretty much objectify the woman. You sound like she's just a gift for God to give out. It's doubly concerning when considering how this thread started as that implies you think God might give you permission to fornicate.

It seems like your view of God and how he works has little in common with the God revealed in the Bible. And it seems you're taking your cues much more from experiences with "angels" than what is plainly stated in the Bible.
Satan can't cast out satan. There are instances in scripture where angels are sent to work for people from God, and Jesus commended the centerions' faith for acknowledging that the Lord could command an angel to heal his servant, instead of coming to him directly.
 
As far as a girlfriend or wife. What your supposed to do is ask God for permission. There is not supposed to be any dating games, or long waiting times. You Ask God for permission.
Brasspen, I've read your OP and all the replies. What you've said here is absolutely correct. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And then PATIENTLY WAIT for his answer.
 
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I tried going to christian dating sites, but they don't work. It will not even let me look at anything after I am done with the profile. And it's the same problem with the disabled dating sites. So right now I have decided that Dating sites don't work. I have no way to try and connect with anyone.

I can't stop thinking about sex and it has disrupted my daily life. I can't do anything because of the fantasies. I can't even get my cloths on when I need to because I can't stop thinking about it.

It has been over 12 years and I need someone really bad.

So I have this one question for a women who wants to move in with me. What Does God want. What does God say about it. Does he want you too?
I don't know if I would be able to find anyone here, but you can send me PM. If you can't send pm tell me you want to talk to me and I will send you a pm.
I know exactly how you feel!
 
I found out my reason for such a strong sex desire was the dopamine. I was starving for dopamine.

This was bcuz when dct chng to oth med the previous was end. We the hppn server decreesse
 
No I was not ready yet. I am still not ready. I need talk n talk, I want hv group thread here on cc sum hw. Priv...
 
No I was not ready yet. I am still not ready. I need talk n talk, I want hv group thread here on cc sum hw. Priv...
Stay strong and trust in God . I did not ask God for a spouse buy , I did ask God to teach me about love . This was because I wasn't brought up in a loving environment and I hadn't ever felt the love ( either romantic or familial ) of another human . So , God eventually sent me someone to love . Be careful what u ask for , relationships r hard work and require patience and effort but , they r worth it ❤️ . Love can come your way at any age but the best age is........when God decides that u r ready for it .