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Pontiac
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Your words are slightly true and mostly untrue along with much false gossip ... True it was not revealed unto you that the man was a cheater until posting 19, however it WAS revealed unto you much earlier that the man DID walk out on his wife, but that he had also decided to abandon at least (2) of HIS young children ... IMPORTANT TO NOTE: Although most here are recognizing the woman admitted to pushing the man away I don't believe people are grasping the full extent of what took place here ... The man did not only LEAVE his wife ... He chose to also LEAVE his children ... It was NOT his children that pushed this man away for sure ... I believe we all here can agree on this much ... So, what we have here is a man that has decided to LEAVE his own children because his wife may have been nagging ... My intuition told me as early as posting 1 that something is highly amiss here ... ANY man, and I will repeat, ANY MAN that will allow a woman or anyone else on the face of this earth to influence him to get up and walk out on HIS CHILDREN is a coward ... And not only is he a coward for walking out on his children, but he has shown to have "zero conscious" of the Lord by committing that atrocious act ... Because of arguing, a man decides to LEAVE his children ? ... No man in his right mind would make such a foolish decision ... I knew in the beginning, there was much more to this situation than was being told ... Now, although that something else was not revealed to you folks until posting 19, I already knew it or something very similar existed after posting 1 ... It was, at that point, where it was revealed that the man walked out on his VERY OWN CHILDREN ... It was, at that point very early in this thread, that it was revealed the man had lost ALL consciousness under our LORD JESUS CHRIST ... And, it was at that point, that it was revealed unto, me at least, that the man is a coward and has some extremely serious issues that only the ALMIGHTY GOD is going to be able to repair ...
Now let me enlighten everyone here on a few biblical facts ... It is said the world is full of many, many opinions and that is certainly true ... As we know ALL of the Bible is true ... I have allowed everyone here to have their own opinion as long as that opinion does not conflict with scripture, but I have not been offered the same consideration ... If others wish to have the opinion that this lady should try to rectify this situation with this man, then I give all the right to have that opinion ... However, to condemn another man, to call him names, to insult him and to accuse him of trying to harm this woman or her family in any way shape or form simply because he has a different opinion is WRONG ... It is not only wrong not to allow another to have their own opinion, but it is highly contrary to the word of God to spread highly defamatory guesses into the man's motives when you do not know the man and his motives ... I have only tried to help this woman and her family and God is the ONLY witness that I need to support this fact ... All humans are free to think of me as they choose ... But to accuse me of thinking of doing anything underhanded to harm this woman is to bear false witness unto your neighbor with absolutely no evidence to support those claims other than your own animosity ...
Everyone here is free to go on hating "Pontiac", because he is new here and not afraid to voice his opinions ... Everyone has that free will ... However, this "Pontiac" person has spoken much truth to many threads in these forums in a very short time ... He is never called anyone any names and he has not spread false gossip or falsely accused anyone as to their motives for being here ... Although some here have been very kind, it is obvious that others have chosen to be hateful and are quick to call others names ... I suggest that we put all of that behind us now and try to help this woman and most importantly try to help her to decide what is best for her children ...
I will agree that, IF this man can find JESUS that it is best for those children to grow up with their natural father ... But IF can sometimes be a very big word ... So far, unto me at least, the man has demonstrated to being very far away from the Lord with his heart ... I don't know exactly where that heart rests, but I do know that when it does not rest with his children then it does not rest with God ... As I said before, everyone is free to their own opinion ... Myself, I would not recommend the woman reuniting with this man until he has proven to submitted unto God and truly asked Him into his heart ... It has been said here, by the woman, that he doesn't know if he believes ... If he does not know, then it is obvious he does NOT believe ... And because of what he has done, it is obvious that he does NOT believe ... I saw this with discerning eyes very early in this post, even before he was said to be a cheater ... It was enough to me to know he had to be very far from God to walk out on his children no matter what else might be involved ... I, myself, have my doubts that this man is going to seek the Lord anytime soon ... Maybe he will and maybe he won't ... IF he does seek Him, I have no doubt that he WILL find Him, but he must first decide to seek Him ... Everyone is free to their own opinion of what this man is going to do and that is the KEY to this woman's and her children's lives ... Nobody knows what the man is going to decide, it is all each person's guess at this point what he will do ... My opinion is that he is not coming back to resolve matters in the correct manner ... That is why my recommendation has been for this woman to pick up the pieces and prepare to move forward in her life ... And for her to seek the best for her children without the man ... Obviously, a Christian father to these children would be much better than them growing up with a non-Christian father in the midst of constant fighting all of the time even if he is their biological father ...
[h=3]Matthew 12:36[/h][h=3][/h] I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak,
