I really messed up.

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Sadie1123

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Back during summer break, I got into a car accident that severely injured the driver of the other vehicle involved, as well as his passenger. The accident was totally my fault as I was driving recklessly (texting and speeding). After the police conducted their investigation, I was charged with two counts of vehicular assault.

Fast forward to today. I had to go to juvenile court to learn my fate. I'd never been in trouble with the law before, so I was hoping for leniency. But that didn't happen. The judge sentenced me to three months in juvie!

The only reason I'm not there right now is because I have a job, so her Honor is giving me until Monday to get my affairs in order. Then I have to report to the county juvenile detention center to begin serving my sentence.

I own the fact that what I did was stupid and criminal. I know I have no one to blame for this but myself and that I totally deserve my punishment. Luckily, my victims were in court to see me sentenced, so I was able to apologize to them both in person. I still feel guilty as I sit here and think back to that day though. I wish there was a way I could take it all back, but I can't. This is something I'll have to live with.

My parents have been upset with me ever since the accident. I hope to show them that I've learned from this and will never be so stupid ever again. But I also admit I'm not sure how I can. If anyone has any advice I'd definitely appreciate it.

Finally, please pray for my victims. They have since recovered from their injuries, but I really messed up their lives. They deserve all the blessings they can get. And, also, pray for me. I've never been anyplace like juvie before and I admit I'm really nervous.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this. I feel a little better having written all this out.
 
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Use the time well. It might be hard to read the bible in there but give it a shot. You can also read books and write letters.

For a lot of people there it will probably be something of a daycare/summer camp/joke but having your freedoms taken away isn't fun and there is a lesson to learn from it. A hard lesson for sure and while I think there are other ways to learn it besides detention, that's what you have to go through right now.

I'll definitely keep you in prayer.

You'll probably be around people that are into all sorts of things so guard yourself and seek out other Christians.
 
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Sadie1123 said:
Back during summer break, I got into a car accident that severely injured the driver of the other vehicle involved, as well as his passenger. The accident was totally my fault as I was driving recklessly (texting and speeding). After the police conducted their investigation, I was charged with two counts of vehicular assault.

Fast forward to today. I had to go to juvenile court to learn my fate. I'd never been in trouble with the law before, so I was hoping for leniency. But that didn't happen. The judge sentenced me to three months in juvie!

The only reason I'm not there right now is because I have a job, so her Honor is giving me until Monday to get my affairs in order. Then I have to report to the county juvenile detention center to begin serving my sentence.

I own the fact that what I did was stupid and criminal. I know I have no one to blame for this but myself and that I totally deserve my punishment. Luckily, my victims were in court to see me sentenced, so I was able to apologize to them both in person. I still feel guilty as I sit here and think back to that day though. I wish there was a way I could take it all back, but I can't. This is something I'll have to live with.

My parents have been upset with me ever since the accident. I hope to show them that I've learned from this and will never be so stupid ever again. But I also admit I'm not sure how I can. If anyone has any advice I'd definitely appreciate it.

Finally, please pray for my victims. They have since recovered from their injuries, but I really messed up their lives. They deserve all the blessings they can get. And, also, pray for me. I've never been anyplace like juvie before and I admit I'm really nervous.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this. I feel a little better having written all this out.
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The Lord always responds to a repentant heart.

Remember Romans 8:28 and fear not, God will be with you in this troublesome time.
 
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Sadie1123

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Mii said:
Use the time well. It might be hard to read the bible in there but give it a shot. You can also read books and write letters.

For a lot of people there it will probably be something of a daycare/summer camp/joke but having your freedoms taken away isn't fun and there is a lesson to learn from it. A hard lesson for sure and while I think there are other ways to learn it besides detention, that's what you have to go through right now.

I'll definitely keep you in prayer.

You'll probably be around people that are into all sorts of things so guard yourself and seek out other Christians.
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I'll definitely give it a shot. From what I've found out, residents are allowed to keep a Bible in their cells. So I definitely plan to spend a lot of time reading mine. And I'll definitely be careful about who I interact with. My lawyer said my best bet is to simply keep to myself as much as possible and to keep my head down.

Thank you for keeping me in your prayers! I really appreciate it. I'm still feeling nervous about what lies ahead, but I'm gonna try and take it a day at a time and make the best of it.
 
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"He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you but to act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?" - Micah 6:8 Berean Study Bible
 
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Dear @Sadie1123

You are forgiven and you are loved and accepted in the Body of Christ. You are released from all the guilt and shame. You are NOT the same person, you have changed for the better. Forgive yourself - there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus.

You are only going to Juvie because God has a purpose in it for you... God's plan and purposes for you are NOT to harm you but to give you a future and a hope.

Take these next 3 months and focus on Jesus Christ - God is doing something in you that needs to be done to make you stronger and wiser. All is well with you. God may be preparing you for your ministry.

Trust no one....ONLY Jesus Christ. May you be filled with God's Holy Spirit and walk according to the Spirit, not the flesh, in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Read and study the Psalms, and the Gospels - Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. May the Holy Spirit open the scriptures and give you understanding and teach you and fill you with God's TRUTH, in the Name of Jesus Christ, amen. You are loved! :love:
 
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You are getting a lot of wise uplifting counsel from the members who have responded. I will say a prayer for you as well for God to keep you safe and hopefully you will grow spiritually during your confinement. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
 
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Sadie1123

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tourist said:
You are getting a lot of wise uplifting counsel from the members who have responded. I will say a prayer for you as well for God to keep you safe and hopefully you will grow spiritually during your confinement. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
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Thank you for the welcome!

Also, I'd like to say thank you to everyone who's replied. I appreciate your caring, your prayers, and your counsel.

I've been struggling like crazy to get my affairs in order. Luckily, my boss has agreed to re-hire me once I'm done serving my time. He's a really good guy. I feel blessed to be his employee. :)
 
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We're praying for you...you have learned from this. The Lord is with you...you'll do fine!
 
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Sadie1123 said:
Back during summer break, I got into a car accident that severely injured the driver of the other vehicle involved, as well as his passenger. The accident was totally my fault as I was driving recklessly (texting and speeding). After the police conducted their investigation, I was charged with two counts of vehicular assault.

Fast forward to today. I had to go to juvenile court to learn my fate. I'd never been in trouble with the law before, so I was hoping for leniency. But that didn't happen. The judge sentenced me to three months in juvie!

The only reason I'm not there right now is because I have a job, so her Honor is giving me until Monday to get my affairs in order. Then I have to report to the county juvenile detention center to begin serving my sentence.

I own the fact that what I did was stupid and criminal. I know I have no one to blame for this but myself and that I totally deserve my punishment. Luckily, my victims were in court to see me sentenced, so I was able to apologize to them both in person. I still feel guilty as I sit here and think back to that day though. I wish there was a way I could take it all back, but I can't. This is something I'll have to live with.

My parents have been upset with me ever since the accident. I hope to show them that I've learned from this and will never be so stupid ever again. But I also admit I'm not sure how I can. If anyone has any advice I'd definitely appreciate it.

Finally, please pray for my victims. They have since recovered from their injuries, but I really messed up their lives. They deserve all the blessings they can get. And, also, pray for me. I've never been anyplace like juvie before and I admit I'm really nervous.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this. I feel a little better having written all this out.
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I just want to assure you, that I believe in my Spirit that God will not leave you alone. But even as you face the consequences of your action, Your Father will be with you. He will continue to love you and grace you. I pray for your protection. That the Lord Jesus will be your defense and protection. Please lean into him. He loves you and he will keep you. He promises that he will not leave your nor forsake you.
 
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Sadie1123

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Tomorrow is the day I have to self-surrender to the detention center. Mom is gonna drop me off on her way to work, so I wanted to hop on here and make one last post since I might not have time in the morning. First, I would like you all to know how much I appreciate your prayers and guidance. And while I'm still nervous about tomorrow and the next three months, I know God will be with me and I take comfort in that.

Mom just stuck her head in and told me to get to bed. I'm sorry this is so short! Anyway, thank you all and goodnight.
 
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Hi! Welcome to CC 😊

Ahhh we simply can't do over what has already happened...how I wish we can so that I can also go back again and choose differently 😊 but as I can see you regretted it already and you already asked for forgiveness to the people involved...

Regarding your parents I am sure their anger towards you stem from their love for you...they maybe feel disappointed but I believe that they are more worried about your well being...

The same feeling I felt when my mother called me a long time ago to tell me that my younger brother was in prison (a friend got stabbed) but it was not my brother who stabbed the kid...he was there when it happened and the kids were his friends and the other friends were able to escape...


My parents were angry and I was angry too... but our anger it was more like we were worried about him...how he will going to live inside the prison my brother was only a kid...he was like 16 when it happened...he was released after 2 weeks I guess I can't remember anymore...he is 31 years old now.


They maybe upset right now but I am sure it will go away fast and maybe at the moment though they are not telling you, deep inside they are worried about you...


Talk to your parents if you haven't talked to them yet...talk to them from your heartt , say sorry tell them how sorry you are for causing something like that...

Learn from what happened... keep looking forward...keep going and keep growing.... 🤗 Stay strong! brother 💪I will include you,your parents and the people who were in that accident in my prayers. Take care and God bless you @Sadie1123 ❤
 
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Sister Sadie1123 Your 1 Peter 3:15 is to be done in you. Do not be afraid,but rather through a mistake, a great blessing for you can also be waiting! Remember Paul and Silas sis?? ( Acts 16:22-26) Verse 26 sis!!! You have the ability now to help others,rather then feeling bad for yourself. I sure understand sis!! Paul and Silas had every right to feel bad as well,but see by there example what we in Christ can do!

IF!!!!! we wish to! You now have the chance to really see what you are made of,yes how Jesus sees you, to be able to keep your peace( Phil 4:7-9) and how in Christ to bring that freedom to others!! Jesus in me is reminding you of something sis!!! HE STILL LOVES YOU!!!! NO MATTER WHAT!!! I have made plenty of mistakes in my 68 years sis!! LOL

To many to count, but by learning from our mistakes rather then beating yourself over the mistake is excatly what Jesus wants you to do! You have the oppertinuity to become a great blessing to others,and if you choose this,you will be greatly rewarded! Because there is one thing every creature of God was created for!!! TO BE NEEDED!!! Even God Almighty had that need!!! Otherwise why would he have ever created us for? Be Strong Dear sister and stay in his Word. As a Saint of God I pour you out every blessing from above!!! Please do keep us updated as is possible for you. You are LOVED SIS!!!!
 
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Hello Sadie1123, I hope all is well with you and that when you come out. You will definitely be a stronger person as before you went in. Stay in faith and close to the Lord Jesus. Lean on Him more than ever.
 
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Sadie1123 said:
Back during summer break, I got into a car accident that severely injured the driver of the other vehicle involved, as well as his passenger. The accident was totally my fault as I was driving recklessly (texting and speeding). After the police conducted their investigation, I was charged with two counts of vehicular assault.

Fast forward to today. I had to go to juvenile court to learn my fate. I'd never been in trouble with the law before, so I was hoping for leniency. But that didn't happen. The judge sentenced me to three months in juvie!

The only reason I'm not there right now is because I have a job, so her Honor is giving me until Monday to get my affairs in order. Then I have to report to the county juvenile detention center to begin serving my sentence.

I own the fact that what I did was stupid and criminal. I know I have no one to blame for this but myself and that I totally deserve my punishment. Luckily, my victims were in court to see me sentenced, so I was able to apologize to them both in person. I still feel guilty as I sit here and think back to that day though. I wish there was a way I could take it all back, but I can't. This is something I'll have to live with.

My parents have been upset with me ever since the accident. I hope to show them that I've learned from this and will never be so stupid ever again. But I also admit I'm not sure how I can. If anyone has any advice I'd definitely appreciate it.

Finally, please pray for my victims. They have since recovered from their injuries, but I really messed up their lives. They deserve all the blessings they can get. And, also, pray for me. I've never been anyplace like juvie before and I admit I'm really nervous.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this. I feel a little better having written all this out.
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I haven't posted in the teen forum or even been here, so was a little curious what the teens are talking about. lol Seems like you have received many understanding posts and no one has really come down on you, and made you feel more guilty, than you already feel. So, good job CC people for the understanding.

The only thing that comes to mind is Paul the Apostle, he literally killed or persecuted Christians. Although, he later repented and helped preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ. So, with that said, learn from your mistakes, and remember God has a purpose in your life.
 
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Sadie1123 said:
Tomorrow is the day I have to self-surrender to the detention center. Mom is gonna drop me off on her way to work, so I wanted to hop on here and make one last post since I might not have time in the morning. First, I would like you all to know how much I appreciate your prayers and guidance. And while I'm still nervous about tomorrow and the next three months, I know God will be with me and I take comfort in that.

Mom just stuck her head in and told me to get to bed. I'm sorry this is so short! Anyway, thank you all and goodnight.
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Update are you okay
 
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Update are you okay
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This is the only thread Sadie participated in.
It sounds like she joined to post her prayer request, left 9 months ago and didn't check back. When this was brought back up to the top, I thought it was a new prayer request. Just a forewarning to those who see this thread and fail to check the date as I did.
 
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