I'm back home
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Hello wonderful Joe!!! 
So glad you're back! You have been missed very much!
So glad you're back! You have been missed very much!
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Yeah, he's that fizzy guy. Not an altogether bad chap actually.
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I have given away my share of money through the years too so don't beat yourself up about it. Live and learn and move forward. I have full confidence that you will be a success, in fact, you already are and possess a lot of spiritual wisdom about how to deal with the ways of the world. At this point of life you are about where I was at that age. Seems life a lifetime ago, or at least 2/3 of it at this point of the game.
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Ok update she still wanted to explain herself texting me on my phone and I told her I just couldn't do for her anymore,I thanked her for what she did do, I told her that I hope she accepts Jesus Christ and stop doing wrong and that I pray she gets a good man to be with forever and sorry that I couldn't be that man for her.
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Well it took awhile but, we're finally officially broken up, she said her piece and I said mine and told her there's no hard feelings, it was sweet that she said she'll always love me, but, I particularly closed it that God willing we'll meet again "in person" if we are meant to be together later.(unlikely but, still being a gentleman)
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I guess I just wanted to remember all of this with me mainly being good to her and not being upset with each other and give her something to "think about" for herself you know that she really had a "good guy" help her and care for her even at the expense of his own lively hood, a guy named Joseph, and despite what happened I want to remember her as a "caring woman" that "helped me" and us both have "happy lives" who knows maybe she'll accept Jesus Christ and change around after me being a bit of a "light" to her I can only hope that I planted a seed in her heart and soul that would make everything "worth it".
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I warned you about this calibre of outcome in my post in the thread you opened: https://christianchat.com/christian...-relationship-now.178984/page-16#post-3698333
The onus was on you to take heed of that advice, not just for that situation but within your own mental health, maturity and development too. I hope you take it on board and apply it to your future to prevent such fraudulence from happening ever again.
The onus was on you to take heed of that advice, not just for that situation but within your own mental health, maturity and development too. I hope you take it on board and apply it to your future to prevent such fraudulence from happening ever again.
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Yeah I gotta stop being so blasted trusting she's not the only one who's been bugging me for money seems like on any side of my family people ask me for money, I gotta start saying no to people and thinking of myself for a change instead of just helping whoever says they need help that's part of the reason I paid her, I figured well my family's taking my money and not paying me back why not spend it on her instead of letting them blow it like clockwork I was frustrated...
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This is exactly why I provided you with a life skills outline in my three posts in your original thread - you desperately needed it. In the future, I suggest you go back when you're confused and do some deep reflection with that solid guidance before you go making any of those kinds of decisions. You'll be much better off in life's challenges, that's a promise.
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Yeah it's a struggle, well now I'm thinking clearer and living with "family I trust" who don't try to "control me" see that's the sort of situations I've been through multiple people "controlling my actions" I guess I felt like it was "breaking free" of my other family's control and actually as crazy as it sounds I still appreciate her help.
Honestly I was feeling so much pain from mold that I felt like crashing my head into a wall ending everything right there, and though it was for money she encouraged me to get up and walk, actually clearing spores out of my head slightly and getting me in "good shape" and the funny thing is now in my new location I "walk everywhere" including to my job, a whole 20-25 minute walk when I have my main work and 5 minutes to a shopping center for other work.
If I had stayed in misery like that there would be no way I could endure walking much of anywhere and definitely not a 20-25 minute walk that's how bad my body was crippled at my old location.
I believe God found a way through her to get my self back in gear and "preparing me" for what was next, I'm still a bit in awe how things have turned out!
I mean I basically took a great risk and am back around my mom and bros again and everything has "fallen into place" for me since day 1 practically, my bro that moved me had nearly everything worked out to get me a job so quickly I couldn't believe it, he helped me get my address changed, tried his best to find me a place of my own and though his idea of a motel bombed it was a great help that 1 night there with so much "peace" and a good night's sleep.
Honestly I was feeling so much pain from mold that I felt like crashing my head into a wall ending everything right there, and though it was for money she encouraged me to get up and walk, actually clearing spores out of my head slightly and getting me in "good shape" and the funny thing is now in my new location I "walk everywhere" including to my job, a whole 20-25 minute walk when I have my main work and 5 minutes to a shopping center for other work.
If I had stayed in misery like that there would be no way I could endure walking much of anywhere and definitely not a 20-25 minute walk that's how bad my body was crippled at my old location.
I believe God found a way through her to get my self back in gear and "preparing me" for what was next, I'm still a bit in awe how things have turned out!
I mean I basically took a great risk and am back around my mom and bros again and everything has "fallen into place" for me since day 1 practically, my bro that moved me had nearly everything worked out to get me a job so quickly I couldn't believe it, he helped me get my address changed, tried his best to find me a place of my own and though his idea of a motel bombed it was a great help that 1 night there with so much "peace" and a good night's sleep.
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Nice to see you again, Joseph! So happy to hear that things are looking up for you
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Hello Joe, welcome back to Christian Chat. I hope you'll enjoy your stay here.
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