No males greeting you? Looks like you have scared them off, already.
Welcome to CC. Here you can get an overload with talkative persons in the chatroom, you can participate in some serious Bible discussions or you can hang out and mingle with the singles. And write blogs! That is a great way to sort your thoughts among sisters and brothers here on this site.
I know CC has been a blessing for me, and I hope it will be so to you, too.