Is putting someone on Ignore,really ignoring them?

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SunshineGirl

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HeIsHere said:
Some people have a lot of tenacity, so sometimes it works to ignore, sometimes it does not and it just makes it worse, in real life I have learned narcissists hate being ignored.

Having said that they will often find another victim but until they do they may persist.

Off topic I guess. Hopefully what you state tends to be the most common result.
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With a narcissist you thank the Lord for opening your eyes to them. Then you ignore them by doing this you take the power away from the narcissist. Nothing good will ever come out of being around a narcissist so I would say cut them off completely.
 
HeIsHere

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SunshineGirl said:
With a narcissist you thank the Lord for opening your eyes to them. Then you ignore them by doing this you take the power away from the narcissist. Nothing good will ever come out of being around a narcissist so I would say cut them off completely.
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Oh, I am well schooled in their psycho-pathology, agree completely.
 
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Lynx said:
I don't have no ideals behind my decision. I just don't care enough about stuff that is said on an online forum to bother putting anybody on ignore.

All the people here whose opinion I would care about don't say stuff that make me want to put them on ignore. The people that say such stuff don't really matter enough to me to go to the trouble of figuring out where the ignore button is.
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Do you ever look at who left an emoji response on your post where It says “show all“ or do you just look at the emojis and not look at the “show all” button?
The reason I ask Is because most people like to see who left an emoji.🙂
 
Lynx

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seed_time_harvest said:
Do you ever look at who left an emoji response on your post where It says “show all“ or do you just look at the emojis and not look at the “show all” button?
The reason I ask Is because most people like to see who left an emoji.🙂
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I check my reactions at the top right, mostly to see who quoted my post so I can see what they said in reply. I usually scan right over the reactions. If somebody leaves a reaction not typical for them and it jumps out at me, I'll investigate further.
 
MrE

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Eli1 said:
@MrE could you please join us here brother?
This is the therapy group that needs help from the Red Xes.

@Texasgal ?
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I was paged?

ah-- a therapy group. Hi, my name is Al-- and I'm an Xoholic.

The first step toward recovery, is admitting you have a problem. I admit-- I love being disagreed with. I like to poke bears with sharp sticks. I'm good at it. When I got my first X, I was immediately hooked. I had to have more.

I began to hang out with all the wrong people. In no time I found out where I could easily get X's. There are dealers in almost every thread, and once you identify them-- the X's flow like honey. I LOVE honey-- which is why I love poking bears.
 
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MrE said:
I was paged?

ah-- a therapy group. Hi, my name is Al-- and I'm an Xoholic.

The first step toward recovery, is admitting you have a problem. I admit-- I love being disagreed with. I like to poke bears with sharp sticks. I'm good at it. When I got my first X, I was immediately hooked. I had to have more.

I began to hang out with all the wrong people. In no time I found out where I could easily get X's. There are dealers in almost every thread, and once you identify them-- the X's flow like honey. I LOVE honey-- which is why I love poking bears.
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X's are the gateway to ignores, but I can't really see who's really ignoring me! I lose so much sleep over this.
 
HeIsHere

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MrE said:
I was paged?

ah-- a therapy group. Hi, my name is Al-- and I'm an Xoholic.

The first step toward recovery, is admitting you have a problem. I admit-- I love being disagreed with. I like to poke bears with sharp sticks. I'm good at it. When I got my first X, I was immediately hooked. I had to have more.

I began to hang out with all the wrong people. In no time I found out where I could easily get X's. There are dealers in almost every thread, and once you identify them-- the X's flow like honey. I LOVE honey-- which is why I love poking bears.
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When I look at your ratio, you are not doing too well, so if you have a supply problem, let me know, I can show how to create demand!!

;)
 
MrE

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HeIsHere said:
When I look at your ratio, you are not doing too well, so if you have a supply problem, let me know, I can show how to create demand!!

;)
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I appreciate the offer of help. We are all here for each other.

I'm trying to cut down. I'm fighting my addiction. Please don't become an enabler.... it's all I ask.
 
MrE

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Thank you @Eli1 for inviting me to the group.

I feel better already. Isn't this nice? To sit with humans. I like it.

Hebrews 10:24-25

And let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.
 
Magenta

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MrE said:
Thank you @Eli1 for inviting me to the group.

I feel better already. Isn't this nice? To sit with humans. I like it.

Hebrews 10:24-25

And let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.
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Hebrews 10 verses 23-24
 
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SunshineGirl said:
With a narcissist you thank the Lord for opening your eyes to them. Then you ignore them by doing this you take the power away from the narcissist. Nothing good will ever come out of being around a narcissist so I would say cut them off completely.
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Narcissists r people too and most times they can't help being who they r . A tiger can't b anything else other than a tiger can it ?
 
DeanM

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Ive ignored some. One kept posting ultimate doom youtube stuff. One was constant politics. I must admit I trolled him a bit before ignoring. I dont recall their names. Either example is not why im here.
 
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